muffin 2 Report post Posted November 15, 2010 Hi all couple out there, a simple question for you. "Do you think it is a MUST to disclose your earning to each other?" What do you think? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bepgof 20 Report post Posted November 17, 2010 (edited) Hi all couple out there, a simple question for you. "Do you think it is a MUST to disclose your earning to each other?" What do you think? When couple is declared husband & wife = 2 becomes 1 = No you & me = WE = all shared. Tio bo? Edited November 17, 2010 by bepgof Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
neubie 2 Report post Posted November 17, 2010 When couple is declared husband & wife = 2 becomes 1 = No you & me = WE = all shared. Tio bo? to the wife: what's mine is mine, what's his is also mine 男人有钱就变坏，女人变坏就有钱。。。 :D Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
everton 0 Report post Posted November 17, 2010 Hi all couple out there, a simple question for you. "Do you think it is a MUST to disclose your earning to each other?" What do you think? Think it depends on what you are both comfortable with and agree on. I don't believe there is a 'one size fits all' in any marriage. But the important thing is that you're both agreeable on the action that you ultimately take. I don't necessarily agree that everything has to be revealed in order for it to be an honest marriage. If you both agree that a certain amount of money needs to be aside for the family or the household and whatever is left over is you own, with neither of you being concerned with how mcuh the other person has left over, I think that's perfectly fine. But I guess the question is ' Why don't you want her to know how much youre earning? It sounds to me that there is another underlying and deeper issue at hand....trust. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gimz63251073 0 Report post Posted November 18, 2010 i have a friend. She demands money from her hubby (gets regular bonuses payout) everytime a bonus is paid. Either pay in cash or in kind (handbag). Keyword is "demand". luckily my wife never does that, if not i also wouldnt tell her how much i earn. me and wifey don't really divide out who pays what and who pays how much. we are both very willing and happy to pay for the household expenses. Life is really too short to quarrel over money, not with your wife. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
muffin 2 Report post Posted November 28, 2010 Hi gimZ, great to be same as u, have a great wife that don really demand much and we always discuss and share any expenses but I will always try to pay first. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
brilliantlight88 0 Report post Posted March 8, 2012 It depends.. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
