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  3. Posted

    Hi flo...

    Understands hw u feel...u wil feel insecure now & starts to let yr imagination runs wild wheneva he comes back late or never picks up yr cal...

    Hmmm...hope u really pulls thru, its difficult...bt really hope u can c the difference in his change!

  4. Posted

    Hi

    me also kpo over here as this is interesting case. Man, i can't believe this! Guess everyone already mentioned all the possibilities & suggestions.

    Could he be self depress when come to having sex or when trying to satisfy the opposite partner. Most likely he is not experienced, bad experience in the past or do not know how and feel embarrased.

    By judging from the fact that he does not like to reveal his personal stuff (as mentioned earlier like his salary, passbook, etc.) he is very secrective and does not like to open up. Could he be in financial stress?

    Advise maybe for her to go more on holidays (so that hopefully will open up more) together and see more romantic/comedy/kids movies. If not then seek counselling (but this sometimes very difficult in case he feel ashame or he is not willing) ... if all else failed or not improving best if she discussed it openly and suggest a few ideas like finding another person who is more suitable to her and enjoy having kids (maybe he will realised what he will miss and open up or change his mind...hope so :bangwall: ).

    Cheers

    Hi Lifestyle...I dunno wat happen to her HB....and we really hope we noe so tat we can solve my fren's plm...

    And her HB is definitely not in financial stress...in fact, he is the richest amongst all...I tink he is too rich and scared my fren will wanna cheat his money...

    They have went many holidays already and in fact more than us....bt still it doesn't work...

    I dunno on the movie part bt I believes my fren has done her part as a wife....I m not trying to say my fren is fault-less...bt from wat I c, the guy got the more plm.

    I tink counselling on my fren will work, bt not on the guy, he will not go cos he is v egoistic...

    It really depends on my fren herself...mabbe she choose to lead tis kinda life...like I say earlier on, I can oni wish her good luck!

    We can lend her our ears, bt it can be frustrating if she cannot make up her own mind and keep on repeating her woes and plms...

    don't want baby ask him to go and tie lah

    to me that's just an excuse loh :bangwall: :bangwall:

    guess we all grow up differently, so have different expectations :jawdrop:

    now i can say i will walk out on the marriage, but who knows what i'll really do when it happens to me

    if i really love the guy so much, i might be willig to put up with it !!

    Its really true.....but but, my endurance not so good...and I dun tink I so "wei da" to be a living widow on tat part!

  5. Posted

    i have signed package with BS , i have a choice whether to have my Wedding Gown Make to Measure or Off the Rack.

    i feel tat if i choose the gown from off the rack , im able to know if the cutting & design suit me. but its have be wore before by other bride :bangwall:.

    on the other hand, If i choose Make to Measure, only by look at design & make to measure, what if the end result is not tat ideally... mean the gown look good in magz or design sketches, but when put on me there might be a chance, its will not look nice on me. I wonder if i after the gown is made and its doesnt suit me am i able to go back to off the rack?

    hope experience brides can advise me. TIA

    Hi LadyLuck, I was a bride years ago.....So hope my experience can be of help to you.

    Tat time I also hv 2 options on my WG, tat is to make- to- measure or off the rack.

    I chose off the rack cos I need to try it on myself and noe which cutting fits best for me.

    Tat time, the bridal shop staff told me tat if I chose make-to-measure, I cannot change to other gowns

    if the end result is not wat I wanted....

    I didn't wanna take the risk...so I just tok off the rack though I also dun like the idea of other

    brides wore it before...

    Bt tat time my BS is kind enuff to let me try those new arrival, as in no other brides hv worn before

    as proclaim by them...I just close one eye and believes them la....anyway every gown loks new to me....hahahaha....

    I also advises my every fren to choose off the rack when I am their wedding coordinator...and they

    always come back to me and say they are happi with off the rack.

    It depends v much on yrself...if u hv the design, material in mind, perhaps u can work

    v closely wif the designer so tat the end result is something u like...

    Good luck!

  7. Posted

    "Satisfy himself only" Then he is jus a Selfish Pig. 8|:furious::curse:

    Maybe shld advise ur friend talk to him and let him knw that "Beside u need satisfaction I also need maybe next time we can do each other like 69 position" Or alternate download some Po..rn moive and watch together so as to intimate each other.

    Ur friend definitely need to speak to her HB otherwise this will further soar the RS. Couple need to tell each other their preference in sex so as to improve their RS, no point only ONE party enjoy and the other suffer in silent. :bleah:

    Ya, she did talk to him tat she has her needs too bt the guy just revoke her and say why she must hv s-e-x..... STUPID PIG!@$&$#@%&%$#&

    There is nothing she can make the guy to try cos the guy wan zero chance to hv babies....

    Anyway, we cannot meddle much into their affair too...

    My fren is a traditional woman, to her, divorce is something disgraceful...

    Tat is y I can only wish her all the best!

    :lol: agree with you. the guy should go see a psychologist. most men (i refering to those selfish type but still have sex ones) who want to get high and release, would like to engage in sex with women but will not try to satisfy the women but instead will just release as and when he like. bcoz generally, most women takes longer time to get high and achieve climax than men. this one is so special.... :dunno:

    IMO, he is just a plain SELFISH, STUPID, IDIOTIC PIG whom is ruining the happiness of a woman....

    Sigh! To tink there is such a marriage nowadays....

  8. Posted

    3 years didn't touch his wife....???:(! @#$%^&*:notti:! Only like to "自摸"? He think his playing majong :jawdrop:??

    He is either a gay or he is sick (in his mind...). Bring him go see psychologist!:jawdrop:

    No...I mean he got touch her....just to make himself high and release....bt he never wanna satisfy my fren's need....Dunno wanna get too detailed...hope u get wat I mean?

  10. Posted

    what did he M to? a lady picture or male????

    did u ask if they engage in pseudo-sex i.e. everything sex like kissing, oral sex, fingering except penetration

    Also even if dun have penetration sex, can still enjoy all the intimacy like i mention above and it more or less will sextify both partners and protect from having babies if that's what the hubby fear.

    If they are not doing the above, then definitely something deeper than what the hubby verbally discussed, the FS and BZ thing made be a facade that's all. :jawdrop:

    They dun do oral sex, kissing...oni minimum kissing during courtship....

    After tat the HB dun kiss her anymore, oni expect her to make him high, then he M lor...

    Which I tink is too much, is like treating her like a tool....

    And the HB dun satisfy her at all....if u were her, wat wld u do???

    Feel so sad for ur frien so young already wan to give in to Life. :jawdrop:

    To each own la....if she choose to accept it, we as frens got to support her....

  13. Posted

    Annulment is possible even if the marriage is more than one yr.

    Can annul if the marriage is un-consummated either due to one party's wilful refusal or inability to perform the act loh. Or the victim is 'conned' into the marriage. Or one of the parties is of unsound mind. Or if the woman already impregnanted by some other persons other than the hb. Or if one of the parties got veneral disease.

    Anyway, point is, annulment is not based on length of marriage. So it is entirely possible. But if annul & the flat is less than 5yrs old, the flat will be confiscated by HDB. But annulment got its good points as ur fren can get back her single status which is v impt. In case she remarries & need to buy another flat. Dat will affect her housing loan loh. It will affect her income tax as well.

    Hi Cheesecake,

    Thanks for your valuable information!

    Anyway I dun tink my fren will ever walk out of tis marriage...she just cried to us weeks ago and

    she tell us tat this is her life and she gotta accept it....

    Well....we have said watever we have to and the rest is up to her liao...

    Her she will be happier 30 years or more than tat in tis marriage life....

  14. Posted

    I think is not for their buttock to sit they scare they will miss the train when the door close suddenly. I used to be gentle but after seeing so many cases ppl rush in and me left behind (cant squeeze in too BIG size) I also become ken chio like them. 8|8|

    Every Morning, I alway realised when taking bus many of them do not go up to the upper deck as there are only 3 bus stop to alight. However those ppls at the second bus stop alway got no chance to board the bus and the ppl jus keep moving in and refuse to go upper deck so no choice have to left those angry ppl standing outside staring. :furious: What are the reasons they dont go up to the upper deck to make space for the second bus stop ppl??? :yamseng:

    LAZY to go up then come down again ma.....

    hahaha, gonna rant my other pet peeve

    escalators!:(!:)!!!

    why do pple stand on the right side of the escalator?

    is it very difficult to stand on the left side???

    it's especially irritating when you see the train arrive, and left while you are stuck behind this person who is in turn stucl behind some inconsiderate idiot :furious: :furious:

    some lagi best, when i said excuse me to them

    they just turn their head, look at me and turn back to face the front without moving a single step :fire: :fire: :fire:

    why why why :P8|

    Applefreak....use my method!

    I always listen to my MP3 every morning while going to work...

    And for those whom likes to stick their leg onto the right side of the escalator, then too bad

    for them to c me...

    I will use a VERY stern voice to say "Excuse me"...and as I cannot hear the volume of my

    tone due to the music....I gather it must b quite loud....

    I dun care cos they are the ones whom are inconsiderate first! Aren't they aware tat right side

    is for overtaking???

  15. Posted

    TPY, just chance upon this thread.....just let u noe I did went for bathroom accessories and hood and hob hunting last year too at Hoe Kee Bras Basah.....I end up buying nothing from them and step out of the shop cos no one really entertains me and when I ask questions on a instant heater, a China worker attends to me bt the information he provides me is totally different from the other shops that I went.

    This makes me lose trust and I did not buy anything from them of cos....

    In the end, I patronises other shops and the Hoe Kee outlet at IMM....The service is great!

    I tink if I were u, I will also lodge a complaint against them and write to STOMP!

    This is really too much! :yamseng:

    Lets c how they sustain their biz from tis kinda poor service!

  17. Posted

    there's actually two queues, one at each side of the door

    but these pple just brazenly walk straight up and stand in the middle

    just cannot tahan loh

    what i did one day was stare at the guy who did it

    i purpose followed him into the same carriage, sat right opposite him and continued to stare at him throughout the whole journey

    after that never did see hiim again :sport-smiley-003:

    Wah...Applefreak, u sure fierce sia....

    No. there is no Q. like those open busstop. when bus comes, everyone goes for the door ma.

    No Q railings, how to keep within the Q.

    True hor....signz....bt if there are queue signs in designated places, I will

    ask the person whom cut queue to follow the queue...

    Bt I noticed in most female toilets, though there are no signs, most of us

    will just queue....oni a handful will cut queue....

  18. Posted

    just the thread i need for today

    got a 'burning' question to ask all of you

    Is it socially acceptable to tell someone off for not queueing?

    as usual, there's two queue in front of the train door when someone will just saunter up to the door and stand in between the two queues

    wanted to tell the person off but not sure coz there's no 'official' queue !! :bath:

    I dun tink there is an official thing in Singapore....

    Bt in TW, ppl really queue up to go into the train and if someone cuts the queue, then he

    must be a foreigner...not sure whether its official there....

    I tink cutting queue here is very common.

  20. Posted

    never knew staying near/opposite a sch is taboo, haha!

    a friend of mine stays in a blk directly opp a primary sch... :yamseng:

    A fren of mine also staying directly opposite the school at Bukit Panjang...I wld say it is rather eerie at nite

    when I lok at the sch from their living room...Bt after staying this flat, tis fren of mine got pretty good

    luck leh in career....both husband and wife....

  23. Posted

    Hi Flo,

    Sad to c yr entry....

    I mean we are talking abt 8 years of marriage and not 8 mths....sometimes Its difficult to

    let go just like tat...

    Perhaps can hv a heart to heart talk with him and c how it goes!

    Perhaps there may be some miscommunication somewhere....Talk it out before making

    yr decision...

    Or a counselling session for both of u might helps!

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