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I feel that I can identify with you. Last time everything also yes. Now he's like 180-degree changed. So different I feel that I married a stranger. If getting married means that my Romeo becomes a devil, then indeed, what's the point in getting married? He loves to wash dirty linen in public - something I cannot stand. I've seen how my father shouted at my mother in public and I promised myself never to marry a man like that. Now he often raises his voice at me in public. For someone so thin-skinned like me, I've been trained by my husband to also behave like a shrew. I started to shout or raise my voice in public whenever he shows signs of about to quarrel with me in public. Sometimes I feel sad thinking about what the marriage has turned me into. One of these days, I'll find myself a nicer man and divorce him. !!

I'm surprised that you would imagine that you can keep the flat (or is that your motive?) after divorce. I hope you understand that you need to sell the flat if you divorce. It's definitely a tall order not to lecture you tho. Such an act is really too base (read: too cheap).