xinyi_reiko

say your hubby goes during working hours lah.. sure no one is around what.. unless they no need to work.. where got so qiao to bump into each other everyday one.. i suggest you to kindly tell them that pls ask permission before enter. scully one fine day your neighbours become so kapo that they start giving instructions to the workers..

i feel you should make up a story.. saying now your hubby free or clearing leave.. then he got time to go down look liao.. say thanks for their effort lor.. chase them off.. if they highlight any problems.. just say "oh, i already inform my contractor liao".. this will give them an idea that, now you know things earlier than them.. then they wont kapo so much.. haha.. good question leh.. i also dunno if anyone stepped into my house during reno or not.. put fifi's face beside the phase also..

sometimes messages must pass in correct manner.. just like in office.. if any impt or formal things needs to be done.. you dont suka suka tell small kah in another dept what.. you sure highlight to the boss of the dept.. then the boss will delicate the work down what.. what is your neighbours thinking sia.. wah liao the youngsters are really rude.. wont paiseh one meh.. want to see show flat.. call up hdb lah.. show flat is fully renovated flat leh.. not partially renovated with dust flying around lor.. maybe you should put a sign there leh.. and say "trespassing will be prosecuted."

i feel you should listen to your contractor.. is him who coordinate his workers to work.. cannot everything listen to your neighbours, because is not your neighbours who does the reno.. if anything goes wrong, who holds the responsibility? since your contractor said say can do later on.. trust him ba.. is not like he is doing a lousy job.. and you need to supervised his workers.. that will make you more tiring.. abt entering your house.. i side with you.. if is me.. i also not happy lor.. how can suka suka enter? your case smiliar to one i encounter recently.. my blk, i think is doing 30th floor.. 1st round hacking.. around 7 plus, workers still working.. bring the rubbish down.. this lady happens to be in the same lift as me and the bangla worker.. the lady asked the worker "which unit you all renovating?", "can i go up to take alook on one of the days?" the bangla no choice but nod head.. that time i thinking.. wah liao can suka suka go up see other ppl's unit.. without permission also.. kns.. other ppl's house so nice to see meh..

morning morning.. ITS FRIDAY!!! fifi, how is your checks yesterday?? you guys going what during the weekends?

wah then next time you stay there how? long way to work..

agree!! you 6pm then knock off lah.. best.. nothing to worry abt..

you action sibei fast.. now packup lah.. then same time shut down your laptop..

wah liao.. then next time you work long liao how? 5pm go home??

mai stress... stress you also no use.. impt thing is your contractor must be responsible.. rectify fast.. contractor take own sweet time to settle or bo hiew.. also no diff..

hahaha.. i feel i am lucky lah.. this japan company is pretty sg like.. other than must be on time (although i always late) but no need to bow low low to show respect lah.. got anything still can voice out.. like me and my boss always exchange culture knowledge.. singapore for singlish culture lor.. some ppl say work in jap company very stress lah. .always need to OT.. here only bosses will continue to follow.. rest of us.. finish work.. go home..

I think like Air say go down during weekends should be good enough.. my reno i also dunno what to check.. arga looks ok.. then i wont say anything much.. dont be too stress up.. tahan.. going to be over soon..

just like my current company.. japan company... i used to think they are pretty conservertive.. but they starts to be more open in singapore office.. employing more and more ladies.. back in japan.. when jap women got married or have kids.. meaning have to quit working world and stay at home.. everytime i hear abt this.. i kinda feel unfair.. as in why women must stay at home.. many times, i got try to emphasis that in singapore is different.. even my boss told me that in sg women gotten more equality than them.. i also said the same thing to my korean agent that came 2 weeks ago.. their culture smiliar to japan.. not sure what am i trying to prove.. maybe to prove that women can perform even got married or have kids.. but ironically, japan had one of the lowest divorce rates in the world.. i believe is also partly their culture.. hmm.. maybe arga arga see around lor.. make sure things are in the right place?? anyway got warrenty one.. so next time got any problem can always call up your contractor..

nice fifi! i like the way you say.. agree agree... human like to find fault on things.. of course we are saving now.. saving for honeymoon.. but i want to say is.. seems women now earning power is much much greater now.. so i wonder if one fine day women hold the power.. of course lah.. somemore can zhao lang 10 mins earlier...

same same.. i used to have such thinking also.. then recently, me and my friend were talking abt another friend.. that friend now team lead liao.. earning same with my friend.. responsibility and stress is so much higher.. OT everyday.. i tell my friend, "you good what, small kar, pay not bad plus good bonus".. he also agree with me.. i feel i confirm will loose out up go climb the ladder.. sure die because of politics..

i wont suffer as long as i got job lah.. but i do seriously worry when having kids along the way.. pretty sure is unable to survived with just his income alone..

I guess you are right.. i ever thought if one fine day he really becomes someone that i desired for... will everything be same? would i still be happy with him? questions with no ans.. at the same time i thinking maybe i should just leave him there.. i continue to bia my moolah..

wah.. after lunch feeling damm sleepy.. zz hmmm okok.. i trying to gather some views lah.. because my hubby is laid back type very contented of what he is doing now, doesnt want to move on (which Air dislike the most), so i am now going further than him liao.. everytime we talk abt this issue.. will end up arguments.. i keep thinking maybe i should learn to accept the fact, since he is already like this even before we married.. i kinda regret that before marriage i never treat this problem seriously.. sometime cant help but to compare him with other ppl.. haiz..

the other way round you also wont accept what.. so what is the use? lets have another sceniaro... hubby decided to go for lower income job.. but he is happy in that job which give satisfaction.. of coz least advancement like volunteery job.. will you accept?? housewife lor.. now in trend to take pay cut to change job huh?

Then what you waiting for? quickly quit your job and be housewife lah.. kinda unexpected that you are less traditional than Air leh.. i always thought that you are the more traditional type.. man's ego or not is another matter ba.. which let the guys have their own discussion on this..

then we say earning power ba.. since you can suka suka name yourself as director.. of course i dunno if hubbies of female bosses are really high up there too.. nv go kapo and ask.. so would you wont accept house husband also lah.. okok you win.. earning more does not means need to behave bossy lah.. 2 different matter i feel..

yours short term lah.. not counted.. long term wise leh??

earning power or level of authority should be on par right? anyway i am saying both.. so one fine day if you suddenly hit higher earning power, how? quit and go for lower pay? hmm.. nothing wrong with realistic... singaporeans in general are more traditional... i been working with female bosses previously.. so i wonder if their hubbies are also really that successful.. maybe they really are.. i also have many thoughts on this issue.. half of me, i feel ok.. another of me have traditional thinking i guess around me still got many traditional minds..

hmm.. i do have something.. since mainly gals talk here.. i not sure if is just me.. seems more and more women are more successful than men... what do you think? if one day, you become more successful than your hubby.. will there be any problems?? or you feel wont be such day...hmmmm.....

morning morning.. feeling damm sleepy.. zz