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Izit the current forum ad on top? colors of the wall? Got another sale on 19th Jan. Maybe gg down to see if they got any small paintings for my plain living room.

Last time I got a indian neighbour who always sun their mattress at the corridor and spray baygon on their mattress. A few days later my room (corridor unit bedrm) got infested. Slowly they stick to my wooden desk, bed, cupboard, chair Threw away all the furnitures in my room..but then everytime the neighbour sun their stuff, bed bugs resurface.. into the living room, bedrm again etc. Threw away sofa..everything! End up we got fed up and shifted house.

I just came back from Bali. Not really raining much for my 6 days there. Weather still very hot. Rain slightly at night (ard 2-3 am) so don't worry. You must go to Tanjong Benoa for parasailing, jetski and human kite flying. Fun! Snorkeling not really good as the fishes variety and water not really fantastic. You can also stay in Ubud for art market. Things are cheaper esp the Zen Bali Spa ..for only approx $18 you can get massage, scrub, yogurt mask and a flower bath. I stayed in Tepi Sawah Villa in Ubud. Great villa and you can get free transport within Ubud area. However I regret not staying in Kuta area because thats the place you can do shopping for more clothing varieties.

Don't worry. I think most likely the HDB will replace the whole tiles for you FOC. You might even be able to save on reno

yeah! was difficult at first...but i decided i cannot have self pity else I fall into depression......so I had to tell myself to look forward hee

Like what Phantom has said, because of your past, you have become a stronger person now. So you don't need to really care about them anymore. Look forward to your future with your new family. I too came from a bad family background because I suspect my mum is schizophrenic. I was tortured during my childhood.My mum hit me for no apparent reason when I was a kid and strangled me till I thought my life is ending. She started laughing when my face turn color and accuses me that I take her money which I did cried all the way to God everyday why does the innocent not have justice. (I was brought up in church since young). Everyday in my childhood was **** especially the hours when I come home from school. Whenever I use the master bedroom toilet, I was accused of stealing. I even caught my mum stole $ from my dad pocket (dad doing business) while he is bathing. When my dad found out his $ missing, my mum would accuse me and give me a very heavy beating for hrs.. till i crawl under the bed the whole night. Even my primary school teachers saw the cane marks and bruises in school but I was afraid to tell anyone at all because my mum will beat me more. They all assume I was naughty when the teachers spoke to my mum during teachers - parents interaction day because my mum told them the lie that I was super bad kid and I was stealing. Teachers look at me at a different way after that... I remember i pray to God for Him to take me to Him because I couldn't stand life on earth. I started working part time jobs during Sec 2 just to avoid being at home. But however, all in all, I came out of the child abuse after one day my mum left with my younger sis with no apparent reason and a long battle divorce court case with my dad. (She accuse my dad of abusing her..I think she hit herself badly to show evidence.) I hated my mum back then but then slowly forgived her and went back to see her..only to be chased out of her flat. Today, because of the experience of the childhood...any road block that happen to me..I took it like a pinch of salt. I feel I am a stronger person now bless with a good career and a good husband and a happy life. I think what Phantom said is indeed true, that the bad past will mould you better for the future. Better life, happier times...only if you can look ahead instead of trying the save the past and redeem yourself.

My friend also complain to me that her husband (now divorced) never does housework. Only when she gets really angry and quarrel over it. There is once she does her part and went out for a course, her husband play computer games till the very last minute before doing the "housework". He was suppose to fold the clothings but end up hiding it on the window aircon ledge outside their punggol flat and drew the curtains to cover it. Then the messy table, he wrap all the rubbish and magaziines up with the dining cloth and threw into the drawer. Swept the dust on the floor all to the toilet. She say she give up on him.....

Anyone knows if the post natas fair will be held tomorrow? Don't know where will it be held? Missed the NATAS fair ...

But does breastfeeding for a long term makes the breast go saggy? Sorry if I ask too directly because I happen to see extreme makeover and those mothers who breast feed for long term gets saggy breast after that.

wow meridan, fortunately your hubby can support you..

thanks for the advice.. I just scope down my work Its true that being loyal to the company does not pay...Family is more important !

yah. Also into the new job, you may require to take leave to go for frequent checkup with the gynae. As my job requires to work OT and I leave late, its also not good for the health. Then you may seem to be of less productivity to the employers which equals lower performance and hinder your career path. If I choose to downgrade and work those more relaxed jobs, I may be obselete if I return to the workforce and behind my peers. Dilemma. It comes to the point whether I want to choose career or family.

I used to have this problem too but it seems to go away after I started a jogging routine, increase the frequency of blinking my eyes esp facing the comp, and sleeping regularly on weekdays. I also realised if I sleep too much I will also have dark eye rings.

I also have difficulty in savings so I place my $ in stocks, savings account with no atm card, withdraw as cash and hide it all over my house, pass some to my mum to keep for me and buy up savings policy. Then everytime when I want to use credit card, I will remind myself to pay back the next day through i-banking. It kinda work for me..Just that keeping track how much I actually have is cumbersome. But I don't know how to stop my crave for restaurant food. I like to dine at restaurants instead of hawker/foodcourts. I am just sick of the hawker food esp since I grew up helping my dad in a hawker centre. The thought of chicken rice, hokkien mee, fishball mee all make me feel like vomitting. I like to dine at outlets with mexican, jap, north indian, italian food.

I am in a dilemma. I am planning to change job because the market has picked up and my current job is getting more stressful day by day. However, my parents in law is pushing us for a baby and I too want to have one early to avoid late pregnancy complications. What should I do? If i change a job and gets pregnant 2 mths into it, I might be fired or they might end my contract after 1 year. Anyone care to advise ?