Hi sumobear ! I do remember you ! It's been a while since I've posted in RenoTalk as well Right now I am pregnant with my second baby. Having more than 1 kid is definitely something that we both agreed upon even before being married. It is indeed already stressful for me to be pregnant and taking care of my 21 month old toddler. But sometimes we feel quite sad looking at him play alone and wants to give him a playmate. All I can say is that it requires many sacrifices. For me personally, I am considering taking a lighter work load (possibly part time job). Thus cannot shop as much lor.. We've also decided to have another kid now due to age. Not just me but also while hubby is still "young" and have energy to take care of one. Later when older, want to play with them also very tiring. It really depends on you and I suggest sitting down with your wife and weigh out the pros and cons and not forgetting the finances ! All the best !