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Will read that later

I think Fifi not coming back so soon to RT coz last day liao colleague wont let her go so easily so give her wrong things to eat during tea break now in the toilet lao sai

Will choose names like Terrorist, Fundamentalist, Extremist Post some rubbish talk some **** to kill time mah

Air, you dont have any children right? Any plans to call your future son/daughter oxygen/hydrogen/carbon monoxide?

Actually you can set a time frame/deadline like 1 or 2 weeks before your wedding to confirm all the attendence. If they cant comfirm but seems like want to come then include them. Those who cannot confirm and also seems like dont feel like coming type just strike them off the list. You have to use your gut feel liao. Dont waste time and have any sentiments here. I remembered I personally went to my cousin's house at Punggol to invite my auntie, him and his family to come my wedding. I look at him in the eye and said you must come to my wedding. I did that because we grow up playing together, though we become less close after becoming adults. Moreover the other 2 cousins which is around the same age from Malaysia will be attending so that means the 4 of us are together again and can take one reunion photo. (I have other cousins too that attend my wedding but they are not of our age range, either much older or younger and some are females ) But he did warn me he also has another wedding that he might need to attend on the same day. In the end my auntie, his wife and his son attend but not him. What can I say about his decision? I think I am a pretty staight forward guy. You scratch my back I will return you a favour next time. Just like my wife's friend who help us alot in our wedding. We will go all the way to Taiwan to attend her wedding end of the year. Not just attend but also help out during the wedding and provide some "Singaporean support" Travelling expenses we bear ourselves, told her not to worry about it.

Like that difficult to solve liao if you have already confirmed your minimum table requirement. Only way is to invite more relatives if friends cannot make it even though you might lugi. But dont be surprise coz you never know they might give you more $$ Colleagues shouldnt be a problem. I remembered I have 1 table only 5 person sitting. And quite a few 8 person tables. But we dont care coz they last minute dont come is their lost and it will not affect our mood for the night. But its true during the process of calling them up to check if they are coming is tedious and frustrating. My wife did most of the calling, simply because she has more close friends than me I just called a few and thats it The rest of the casual friends I dont even bother to invite. Dont wanna waste my time. Moreover if I do try my luck and invite them they have to sit on the floor So conclusion is not to have too high minimum number of tables. Easy to cut who you can dont want to invite than to add

Ya exactly. I told him aircon trunking very important must be there to oversee it. Alot of **** he said to me but nevermind I let him win

I think you feel disappointed especially those who you think they are supposed to be closer to you but didnt give you the reply you want to hear. I am sure they will want to attend but maybe circumstances does not allow them to give an immediate reply?

I also want to rant abit too Yesterday lunch time I went down to my house to check out my reno update so far and I managed to meet my neighbour a few units away from mine at same level and he was surprised that I came down to do spot check on my reno. He claimed he didnt, not even during the aircon trunking installation and leave it to his ID. So I ask him if his ID was there to oversee the trunking installation and he said dont know For my case maybe different because me and my wife is co-ordinating all the work but when you think about it, doing renovation is not cheap. The amount spent is like investing in a business. When you invest or start a business even if you are sleeping partner, would you just bochap and trust your money in others' hand just like that?

Hey what happen to your rant "spam"? I was about to reply you... Anyway you confirm your number of tables already?

Ya kat take a break, have a smoke with hubby together

Morning everyone Its good that you kaisu and start early. Nothing wrong with that. Important thing is preparation and homework. So when you start to look for BS or planning stage for AD then you know what you want, who to approach etc. My point about nothing is perfect is, after you put so much effort and planning into it, you can only hope for the best and let it takes its course. If there is any screw ups along the way, just take it easy and not affect your mood.

Nothing wrong lah. It depends on individual. Just that you said "but i think all brides are fussy on bridal stuffs" mah. So not true for my wife lor For your info, my wife just took 30 to 45 mins to choose and decide on her gown. I know because I went to choose with her rather than get her friends/mother/sister/dog/colleague/next door neighbour/wash toilet auntie come along Sorry if I sound too direct but both of us cant stand brides who bring along so many people and jam up and take up the space of the whole changing room and disregard the other brides who are also there for appointment to choose their gown, even to the extend of affecting other brides' appointment who come later because they take hours just to choose their gown. And they get the staff to take so many gowns and try on it its like a show parade. As for me how long does it get to choose mine? 15mins In short we know what we want. We dont need so many people's opinion to tell us what is good what is not. And we go ahead with it. Just relax, especially on your AD. The more you want it to be perfect the more screw ups it will be and your emotions will be affected which in turn affect your mood. Just remember wedding is suppose to be a happy affair

Agree...its their job but too bad doesnt work on my wife

Agree I am not against adding photos anyway. If the price is reasonable by all means go and add. But hor if its expensive I dont see why we should add. I think for our case our AD photographer and the photos he taken is worth paying than the BS's coz it contains alot of what I call "the real stuff" from morning till the wedding night of what is going on with our parents, friends and relatives in it. I think these are much more valuable than anything else.

You are wrong. My wife is not fussy at all about bridal stuffs. She didnt even add additional photos at all. 30 is all we have and that is in our package and thats it. And to think our BS spent close to 3 hours telling us to take up additional photos

I 1st smoke when I was 15. On and off smoke abit. Quit when I went JC. Then started again after my BMT. During the period in army I only smoke on weekends or when going out. Quit when I was 26 But for my case is different because I dont smoke so much. I dont smoke during working hours. So quiting for me is not difficult. The only thing I remember is I will have running nose during the early quitting stage. After that ok liao.

Pall Mall. Good suggestion. With you, at home or going out dont smoke Not sure about that I think Pall Mall lights should be ok bah I dont smoke anymore so I dont know

I think for a heavy smoker like him is quite tough just to stop smoking like that. Since he already stop totally see how it goes. If he starts again maybe can use my earlier suggestion, restrict to 4 sticks per day then slowly become 1 stick. Then no stick And also ask him not to buy marlboro if thats his regular brand if adopt my suggestions. Try to change to light menthol type of other brands. The lesser the nicotine the better.

Ok. Since he is a heavy smoker so it is not surprised that he has red eyes and no appetitie when he is in the process of quitting smoking. 1 pack plus per day is alot. When I was a smoker last time the highest I can go is 1 pack in 1 night but that only happen when I go disco/pub. But on usual days I dont smoke at all and only smoke on weekends. Reason being I consider smoking as a pleasure rather than a regular routine daily thing. But now I dont smoke anymore I smoke cigar But again that only happen on good occasions like during my ROM/wedding, when I finish a project or when I go holiday. So my advice to your boy is to restrict himself to 4 sticks per day from now onwards. Then slowly become 1 stick. Straight away quit does not work at all and may have adverse effect.

Let me guess...your boy must be a heavy smoker, at least 10 sticks to 1 packet per day and smoke everyday?

Not true. I also wore white outfit with black shoes. Dont really look out of place. Another reason is I got change to 2nd outfit which match my black shoes during my 2nd march in so just use black shoes all the way

Hmm.... xinyi_reiko - Fifi - Air - ? Katvolution - ?