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same here. would rather put the money to better use. of cos must like the venue, but seriously, it's just for 4 hours. but of cos, to each his own. some pp will tink: it's once in a lifetime affair, of cos must make it grand. but there are many things in life which happen once only. im too practical oredi. bottomline, happy can liao

wow that's very affordable leh

hi gingar, first of all, congrats to u & ur HTB~ if im not wrong, there's an eatery near ROM itself. ur guests can proceed to the place straightaway after the solemnization while u take some pics in fort canning itself. we held our reception after solemnization at tea house (chinasquare). a bit paiseh cos they had to wait till the dimsum buffet time starts (3pm onwards & our solemnization was 1.35pm). oso a bit troublesome (cos gotta charter bus to ferry them to chinasquare), plus the food was a bit cold. anyway ROM at fort canning is the best cos can take loads of pics in the place...

b4 marriage, we talked abt it & he improved. but only recently, he suddenly reverted to his old self. he wun call or sms me whenever he is out having fun. used to call him like 20 over times in the past, and he dun pick up the phone. sms also rarely reply. if reply, it's be monosyllabic. i do find tt kinda irresponsible. but i tink & tink & come to this conclusion: i am not his mother leh, he should have his own space & time, dun need to report to me all the time right? tt's why now i oredi stopped confronting him on this problem, more like acceptance. but just wondering why he liddat one. seriously dun feel good lah.

ask u all one thing... if spouse go out till very late at night, say, 2-3am, should he/she at least inform his/her spouse in case he/she worry? or should he/she give him all the freedom & pray tt he/she is okay? just wondering (no we did not quarrel over this).

thanks! possible to share his contact, website if any & packages? !!

eh i didnt know GCW can have lesser than 30 tables. we went novotel to look on 7th jul. hubby likes it but me dun like. find it a bit too modern for my liking. actuallie still prefer the conventional victorian look for weddings. btw for restaurants, tink can look at nobel house too. heard good comments abt them. u book GCW liao? when ur big day?

heh thks cheesecake~ i got the file somehow or rather...tink someone sent to me keke... u shortlisting HIA too?

thank you very much, air~ actually we talked abt it before, a few times somemore, but not much use leh. dun mind trying again though. constant reminders help but wouldnt tt make me naggy? the last thing i wanna be is a naggy huang lian po leh. maybe i myself tend to avoid such "confrontations" too, cos he did ask me whether i wanna divorce him last sat. i just said "no lah no such thing". he's not the most caring guy in my life, but the one i love most (if not why i marry him right). divorce is last resort of cos...

eh frenly lah... we're all here to share & help one another mah

hi GnM, is your AD over? care to share your experience with HIA? they're on our shortlist but we haven't gone down to see yet.

men dun need much surprises right? they will forget abt it very soon one. hahaha

my hubby always say tt he cannot meet my expectations. actually i oso dun demand a lot mah. i dun take $$ from him, i do all the housework, i coordinated the reno process & am now gonna plan the wedding (even though he taking 14 tables & me 5 tables). all i asked was tt he be there for me when i needed a shoulder to cry on mah, difficult meh? plus i am not a naggy person. according to him, i am the least naggy girl he has ever met hahaha. i think i spoilt him too much liao. sigh!

for the benefit of all those who are asking abt storeberry's package price... looks like it's really worth it

eh phantom & cheesecake u guys around? how was the wedding fair @ grand corpthorne waterfront? we didn't go cos realise tt their min tables is 30... we worked out our AD list...only abt 20tables leh. also, talking abt the star rating thingie. we most prob gg for 4-stars cos prefer to have more budget for mom's pin jin & honeymoon lo

just checked... late aug & sep should be available... only the weekend ard national day no more...

again, i had let the matter drift over the weekend. i know i am too forgiving & hence allowed him to take advantage of me easily. but rather than having a sad and/or angry weekend, i chose to have a peaceful one. i know tt on the long term, things would never improve. hence the cycle repeats over & over again. perhaps one day when i really get tired from it all, i will leave. since he dun change, i change.

come to think of it, he has never offered any solution to any of my probs. he was, but improved. sad to say, just recently, things worsen

know what a woman's greatest fear is? marrying a guy who cannot be depended upon. a guy who only knows how to eat, drink & make merry all the time. sway sway, i kena this kind of guy. all i can do is depend on myself. i had been patient wif him long enuff, but i still see no changes. whenever he treats me like that (dirt), i forgave him. but time & again, he can choose to hurt me. some of my frens told me to do the same to him, but i simply do not fancy the "payback" strategy.

yes things will get better once this painful phase passes. but the prob will not die cos it's a recurring one. talked to him already. he retorted: dun think the world revolves around u. wtf? when i needed a shoulder to cry on, he is NEVER there. and on these occasions, he can still go out & have fun with his frens or colleagues. doesnt it look like i married the wrong guy?

it has dawned upon me that he can only share my joys & not my sorrows. but he himself can go out & have fun & totally forget abt me & ignore me. he will only turn to me when he is having a bad patch. selfish pig. i do not wish to go with him. why must i be so dependant on him? what for i share so much joy with him while he can retort: "dun think the world revolves ard u" when i said i am upset & needed a shoulder to cry on. i must learn to be happy by myself. this is what i owe myself.

dun think i can find anyone to go wif me. used to have mostly guy frens during clubbing days... after marriage i shut off from many pp... the closest female fren i had is now stuck like glue to her BF cos he gg to the US soon. next closest one sure turn me down like always. i dun really have many frens plus i planning to go on weekday in sep...

actually i did... told 1 of my frens just a while ago. only get superficial replies like "things will get better". sickening...

thanks a lot air... but need 2 to travel? i going alone leh...

i cannot just turn to frens whenever i am down. it will not be fair to them too. i just wonder why i married a guy who just runs away at the sight of sorrow & leaves me alone like that all the time. somemore he can still go out & play. if he loves me, why would he do this to me? why marry me when he doesn't even care? one day, if i kena accident & lose an arm or leg & become very sad, prob he will leave me altogether.