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ohh... haha... ya loh... sometimes i oso feel they are soooo simple-minded

er... i dun quite get u?

ya loh i agree sometimes i will tell him that the way he treat his other colleagues ppl might misunderstood. somemore he doesnt like to wear ring wor... anyway now wear ring or not those gals will still chiong.... prob even like it more!

hmm... i would say they are not in the same dept though same company. so to certain extent still job related. but but but... 11pm++ leh! shdnt be that urgent until muz call hubby rite? most of the time i hear my hubby teaching him how to do the work. **** pissed off!! hubby's job definitely not 24hrs standby... that's the pt i keep wanting to get across to him. i tink hubby knew i dun like this colleague of him keep calling him at wee hrs. my hubby is a too chin chai person... he tinks since it's for work then anything lah. i know he din wanna offend his colleague oso... but ppl will take advantage of him in this way. just 1 word -- Irritating!

for work related stuff which i tink he shd go pick up how he shd get to work himself rather than depending on my hubby. furthermore, his work scope and my hubby's totally unrelated... i asked hubby what if one fine day tis guy called when we're in the middle of doing something. wont it be disturbing? once, he sms at 11pm++. hubby was having a headache and had just fallen asleep (not deep sleep though) i took a look at the phone in case something impt (older model of phone that will go straight into the msg without informing who is the sender). tis guy stated "XXX, give me a call in 5 mins" i feel that he is commanding hubby to call him and it is definitely after office hrs! didnt wanna wake hubby up, i returned the sms "My husband is already asleep" hubby woke up few mins later (apparently the msg tone woke him up) and i told him i helped him reply liaoz

that was the same qn i had in my mind!! i asked my hubby that too!! oh ya... during that gathering, that guy kept "complaining" that 1 of the female colleague kept making phone calls to the bf etc etc... the other colleagues were teasing him that he has no one to call and no one calls him! i was very very tempted to butt in "oh... no wonder u kept calling my hubby in the middle of the night!" of course i did not! was trying soooo hard to keep myself from saying that!!

yup... it's like when hubby mentioned a colleague, he'll let me know which one when he brings me for the gathering there's another guy colleague of his who calls/sms him (i've experienced more than 5 times) when it's almost 12am and expects my hubby to answer the call! finally 1 day i had the chance to meet him at a gathering (coz he's new). U all know what? he did not even smile or say hi to me! (although all his colleagues will smile at me and i will smile back) he looked at me as if he dislike me and i'm meeting him only for the first time!! before we even reach the venue for the gathering, he had been sms-ing my hubby to ask him wat time he's coming, how come he's not here yet, etc etc!! i was super pissed off coz even i, as his wife, do not keep track of his movements in this way!

yup. that is why i'll go with him to every single gathering with his colleagues if he asked me along.

hostile face means not being frenly to her and only her. no toking to her and only her purposely, unless there is really a need, if u get what i mean definitely not showing her a black face but treating her presence as transparent. and i do agree that dirty linens shd not be washed in public!! that is why i have not "shown hand" to that lady.

i certainly hope she really stop going after my hubby and not just did not do it in front of me!

i've oso experienced such colleague of my hubby. that time we were just mths before our customary. went to a chalet with his colleagues and there's this fat lady who had been calling my hubby's name affectionately came too. we were playing a game and having forfeit. the loser (me and my hubby's team) had to have their face painted. this fat lady immediately say wanna paint my hubby's face! and her face was sooooo close to my hubby and taking her own sweet time as if putting on makeup!! the other colleagues really just smear on faces, unlike her! i was super angry! i bear with it... keeping my anger down. really feeling like giving a tight slap on the ****! hubby had told me that she "flirts" with almost all the guys in the company. i told him "i dun care who she flirt with. she just cannot touch my man. and u, as my husband, has the responsibility to keep her away if u do not want to get close to her!" i made him promised that other than work, he is not supposed to get near to her nor tok to her. for the following 2 gatherings, i see her not so teh towards my hubby. i did show her very hostile face during that gathering. i mean, my hubby has other female colleagues (more attractive than her) and yet they did not behave like that towards him! they even acknowledge my presence. this fat lady doesnt do so and purposely act feng shao in front of me towards my hubby. i even told hubby that if he doesnt do his part to isolate from her, he shouldnt blame me if shd 1 day i opening scold her in front of all the ppl, and this is wat i'm capable of doing! (when i'm really angry) i oso dun understand how come these kinda of girls are like that... dun they know how to write the word "shame"?

my fren gave us ang bao for my ROM while hubby's cousins gave us gifts... personally i'll definitely prefer ang baos!

he resigned shortly either before or after the re-org

Lee Hwa, Aspial, Citigems and Goldheart all owned by same company. Goldheart was bought over by Lee Hwa in i tink Oct Yr 2005. coz i gotta know a salesperson in GH when i bought our wedding bands with him and he told us that.

what if it's not the multicoloured LV?

since u all soo clear with LV bags, how to differentiate between a pirated one and a authentic one?

ya loh... i dunno gotta work how many days more just to be able to pay for 1 tix btw, the musical i went to is Phantom of the Opera. never been to planton of the opera before

rolex watch? i'll have it IF korea buys 1 for me! i no money to even buy watches!!

to emphansize on the type of wearing mah....

sorry loh... slipper and tshirt plus mainland type of plastic bag u tink i'm korea meh carry LV bag? i do not have any branded bags at all.... me poor gal. i've never gone to suntec branch. i've been to PS and citylink that's y i said service may depend on who is the customer service personnel serving u at the time u patronise the shop.

what i mean is it might depend on who is salesperson on that day i guess... btw, i'm often in tshirt and slippers too

just some input here... dun tink it's right to bash the service of lee hwa like that i bought my rings twice with lee hwa and both salesgals (2 different occasions and shops and persons) served me very well. even when my mum bought just a pendant < $100 from them, she oso received very good service. i tink it depends on which salespersons that served u that day btw, goldheart is the same company as lee hwa

Not, u all dun understand the situation i dun wanna say anymore else ppl will say i'm bad i cannot be stressed otherwise my gastric will relapse. not enuff sleep etc will add toll to my health conditions. anyway, perhaps i'm not a person who high tolerance and i especially cannot tahan kids cry. dun ask me what if next time i got kids how. i dunno.

Thanks odie. i guess it's not easy to get adjusted to sudden change of staying with more ppl and more noise. i'm a person who values personal time and quietness after a long day.

Thanks odie. but i guess this is not the correct channel. i will get more upset reading ppl's comments. din wanna start anything in ur thread too so i just del off whatever i've posted that will invite critics.