How To Choose The Wedding Date?

[tingshen 0]

is there any website to refer? for year 2008

I need to pick a few so that my aunt can check the TongShu for the suitable auspicious days....

[kenmura 0]

Hello kenmura

Do I sound that serious?

Anyway, I would call this selected date the "Golden Day". Good for you.

Ah i see

thanks for taking the time to check and to explain Mr Chong.

Will certainly use this day.

Am already enquiring with hotels with regards to this date.

Thanks!!

[Mr Chong 0]

Sign... really no date

If that is the case, how abt dates from March 2008 to July 2008, before lunar 7th month?

Hope you can advise me more dates cos I have so much problem getting wedding venues...

My DOB is 14th Mar 1972 abt 10:25 pm

My fiancee DOB 19th Nov 1977 10:22pm

Preferable weekday, thursday

Try 15 Nov 2008

[Nautica 0]

Try 15 Nov 2008

Thank you Mr Chong for your help.

I will try to use although it is seems too late for me and it is on weekend will be tight on my budget.

Will discuss with my fiancee and family n see how..

Just a question, if using a wrong date will it cause bad to the couple?? eg always quarrel, health problems etc??

[Mr Chong 0]

Thank you Mr Chong for your help.

I will try to use although it is seems too late for me and it is on weekend will be tight on my budget.

Will discuss with my fiancee and family n see how..

Just a question, if using a wrong date will it cause bad to the couple?? eg always quarrel, health problems etc??

Of course a wrong choice of date will cause and expedite troubles and problems between couples. It can be quarrels, health and also wealth.

[enci 1]

The Buddha's guide from the Singalovada Sutta to a blessed n happy relationship and building a harmonious family without using dates ....

Five Kinds of Duty of a Husband

1. A husband must be kind to and adore his wife.

2. He must not treat his wife in an insolent manner.

3 He must not engage in sexual misconduct with other women.

4. He must give her control and authority ever domestic matters.

5. He must provide his wife with clothing and ornaments.

Five Kinds of Duty of a Wife

1. A wife must arrange chores of the household well and run it smoothly.

2. She must distribute gifts fairly between her relatives and her husband's relatives.

3. She must not engage in sexual misconduct with other men.

4. She must keep and maintain in an orderly manner all things that are handed over by her husband.

5. She must be skillful and diligent in all her housework.

Five Kinds of Duty for Sons and Daughters

1. Sons and daughters must attend closely to their parents in order to provide them with all the requisites in life.

2. They must carry out the social affairs of the business matters of their parents.

3. They must maintain their parents' properties, their parents' nationality, their parents' religious duties, and try to straighten their parents' religious view if they have a wrong view. They must also maintain the good name of their parents and their lineage.

4. They must obey their parents and make themselves worthy of the parents' heritage.

5. On their parents' death they should do good deeds in dedication to them and share the merits with them.

Five Kinds of Duty for Parents

1. Parents must prevent their Sons and daughters from misconduct.

2. They must show their sons and daughters the way to good conduct.

3. They must make their sons and daughters learn arts and sciences.

4. They must give them in marriage to suitable persons.

5. They must give them their inheritance at the proper time.

[xara 0]

Hi Mr Chong,

If your are free, can you help me to take a look too? =)

my bday : 30th Dec 1983 1021am (sg)

my bf bday: 31st Oct 1981 abt 3pm (china-zhejiang(Yiwu))

We have already got the key to our flat but we decide to have the solemisation during the dinner itself so we target to have the dinner not later than Jan 2008.

Tentatively, we are also thinking of holding the tea ceremony just before the dinner.

From the electronic calculation, we are looking at 31st Jan 2008.is it okay ?

We are currently looking at weekdays, preferably thur as weekend dates do not have much left for the venues.

Thanks a lot!

[Mr Chong 0]

Hi Mr Chong,

If your are free, can you help me to take a look too? =)

my bday : 30th Dec 1983 1021am (sg)

my bf bday: 31st Oct 1981 abt 3pm (china-zhejiang(Yiwu))

We have already got the key to our flat but we decide to have the solemisation during the dinner itself so we target to have the dinner not later than Jan 2008.

Tentatively, we are also thinking of holding the tea ceremony just before the dinner.

From the electronic calculation, we are looking at 31st Jan 2008.is it okay ?

We are currently looking at weekdays, preferably thur as weekend dates do not have much left for the venues.

Thanks a lot!

31st Jan 2008 is not a good date.

[ahockz 1]

not sure if this thread still ard a not. i planning custom next yr,

need to find know if parent brithday need to also consider? my mom told mi custom it not good if any of us (both of us and both side parent) having birthday on that month . . .

[enz 0]

Hi Mr Chong,

Are you still doing bazi reading? I need advise on wedding date as well ....

[himiten 0]

Edited July 23, 2008 by himiten

[badzy 0]

wow. this is interesting. never got the chance to try this....

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[Gemini06 0]

Hi Mr Chong, could you also help me with some good dates for my ROM? Hopping to have it end of this year, Nov, Dec 08 or Jan 09 preferably on Sat or Sun.

Female - 17 June 1979, 1.05am (Malaysia)

Male - 18 Dec 1979, About 8pm (Singapore)

Thanks!

[Mr Chong 0]

Hi Mr Chong,

Are you still doing bazi reading? I need advise on wedding date as well ....

Hello

Haha....selecting wedding dates is different from bazi readings. Go ahead and give me the dob.

Hi Mr Chong,

Could you help me check if 20 September 2009 is a good date for us? If not, any date that is towards the end of 2009 should be fine. However my fiance do not know his birth time.

Mine 17 November 1981 1320+pm

His 31st July 1981

Do we need to check if our parent's year of birth is suitable as well?

Thanks a lot for the help!

Hello

I need the time of birth.

[Mr Chong 0]

Hi Mr Chong, could you also help me with some good dates for my ROM? Hopping to have it end of this year, Nov, Dec 08 or Jan 09 preferably on Sat or Sun.

Female - 17 June 1979, 1.05am (Malaysia)

Male - 18 Dec 1979, About 8pm (Singapore)

Thanks!

Hello

This is the selected date for both of you : 11 dec 08 9am