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Women, generically, jump into conclusion prematurely. Enlighten me, if you are able and wish to, pls. Now is the time suit "westerners" to move to the "east" to make "wealth"? FS stresses sow-reap principle. Present bogus ones pluck "figures from the air", under camouflage of some "stars" and "house" with "1-9". Bazi methodology tot not very logical, it contains wisdow and much more "logical" and "reasoning" than those "stars", "house", "1-9", if were to compare. One important thing worth noting, bazi's "direction" philosophy refers to revolving of earth around the sun, thereby 24 jieqi was developed, which makes sense and logical.

It took me quite some time to consider if to response. Let me share from heart. I only aware of the "LAW" in recent yr....., hard to describe in words, btw i try. The "LAW" that I was referring to is LIKE a mirror, but not exactly a mirror. ONLY 3 reactions one would response AFTER looking at the mirror. 1. Am I that bad looking? Walk away and DO nothing to the "look". 2. I am so "swee", see here look there, walk away and DO nothing to the "look". 3. Hair a bit messy, comb it, collar not straight, adjust it, then walk away. Understand? James understood the "LAW" some 2000 yrs ago.

Precisely stated. I got the "shock" in vietnam hotel b4, I know its "power". Previous house got 2 big mirrors(8x6ft +8x6ft), present house "reduced" to ONLY (12 x 5 or 6 ft)one pc, no "shocks" so far. I love those mirrors - practicality & aesthetics.

Monks believe in no God, Taoists worship many Gods. Pls study concept of "empowerment", will give you some light. WHO(why he has "power"?)can empower who and what.....

2 things happen: something happens and nothing happens. I've said 2.5mm cable can carry contineous 5A safely. This size can carry 230 x 5 x 0.8 = 920 watt of load! I've also said, PVC cable insulation can last up to 70 deg C (actually this is the "design temperature"), practically, pvc lasts till 105 degC, before its electrical characterists varnish/give way. As rule of thumb again(cos too many copper alloys in mkt) if current capacity up to appro 6 times its mm sq size (2.5 x 6 = 15A) it will reach 105 degC within seconds!.

Alexz knows how to use foc "compass Apps", sure know where to get foc "luopan compass Apps", which provides foc "direction analysis report". Therein question lies with trustworthness of such report and her/his trust onto such. My advise: Directions decide wealth & health? Then there shall no such word as "uncertainty". Those "risk management" thoeries, equations and formulars in corporate finance, can be thrown away liao. Why bother to "hedge" funds against interest and currency fluctuation to minimise risks? Might as well sleep at home and shake legs by just simply choose a "good direction"!

FOC "heart endurance test". Good! who says it's harmful?

I present her the calculation "present" & "furture" value of money. Also some calculation of CPI/saving....she finally convinced.

True enough. Abt a month ago, convinced wife to park her $50k(which has been kept in saving account for a few yrs) in United Emerging Markets Bond Fund. The fund started since 2001, yearly yield average 5-6%. Wonderful feature is that the payout is monthly. Don't talk abt capital gain(buy/sell), everymonth just receive 50000x0.05/12 = $208.3. Better than parking the $ in saving account right? http://www.uobam.com.sg/uobam/assets/pdfs/fundfact/p_gemsgd.pdf

How come no one inputs comments? Women use right brain more than the left one, so attitude/behaviour/decision making appear to be "dramatic" or temperamentally, which always leave the left brain users in a confused state. 1. From 1st appt to 2nd appt date, maximum is 8 wk. Only the HDB reserves the right to "extend" due to unforsee circumstances. 2. From what u described, I'm 100% sure the "char bor" seller is a "green horn" in real estate property dealing, If she were to insist on 11 wk, why bothered to turnup on the 1st appt date? Sure HDB not allowed! Eventually, did 2 of u sign & fix date on 2nd appt? 3. Once the papers are signed on 1st appt date and 2nd appt date fix (actually still can alter, up to seller/buyer, as long as hdb agrees)the transaction enters into a "irrevocable" state, even either one of the party pass away after 1st and b4 2nd appt. 4. From the way u mentioned indemnity form, I guessed most probably u've signed the papers in 1st appt. Read pt 3 again, if papers signed. 5. If not yet signed and wish to cancel the transaction, lodge an cancellation to resale submission application to cancel the deal. 6. Not worth to engage laywer to get back yr 5k. Let bygone be bygone, story too long to write here, use the left brain to "think". 7. Indemnity form is a form autorised from seller to buyer to "preoccupy" the premises, before the residence title deed exchange hand, in the form of "renovation", however holds the buyer FULLY responsible to any DAMAGES done during that period. My opinion is the, the "mutual trust" between 2 parties MUST be established, otherwise DON'T sign the form, must so rush to do reno? Think of 3rd option. 8. Why don't just spend some $ to rent a place to stay first, and a cheap place to put all yr bulky barang barang? Work out a budget, rather than letting the "anger" dominants the "vision". Anyway, i'm sort of confused abt yr status - yr wrote "my hubby", then y wrote "my wife is pregnant"?? Basically i'm a left brain user, still get conned by right brain users, at times.

男人重权威,女人重爱情。男人重前景，女人重回忆。男人看大局，女人重细节。男人重投资，女人重保障。男人重发挥，女人重安全感。男人重理性分析，女人重直觉感受。 何为？男人用左脑，女人用右脑也。

知之为知之，不知为不知，知也。臭地放臭气，臭人放臭庇。

多查字典，多看书准没錯。祭坛, altar 也。

多说多错，少说少错，不说没錯。老弟保重。

Use more left brain will get resonance.

Never witness "earth"(臭土)when adds water, gives FIRE?(U would know if u were born 20 yr earlier). In 1999, when I was in a gas plant in a Brazil jungle, I witnessed the "earth" burnt all by itself (natural gas underneath). Earth helps producing fire, actually this is an "extreme" case. Generally, WOOD benifits/produce FIRE. Nowaday, "many things" can produce fire, or "anything" can produce fire, knowledge is the limit. All from dust, will be returned to dust(earth). You should know by now what is called "habitat". No lives no happening of events. A gun won't trigger by itself, simple "theory" right? Lives make things appear to be complicated, luckily there are "laws of nature" which govern the rules.

Lau ah Di(addressing u this way, i aldy "discount" myself), why always like to exercise right brain more than the left one? History reveals everythings! I read Chinese history from 黄帝(~BC 2700), 夏(when 12 earthy branch began),商,周,秦,汉,,,,三国,,,五代十国,,,宋,金,元,,,中华人民共和国(since 1949) I've read too many chinese "中国古代典籍" since young, including "封神榜", "西游记"....all mentioned abt altar(some time also called ”鼎“）where offerings were put onto. I've also "finished" reading 66 books of the old(39) & new(27)testaments. Go and check 1st bk, Genesis chapter 22:9. Wherever Abraham travelled, he built the "altar" outside his houses. Lau Di, why I remembered "so well" abt "altar"? During those days when LAWS ruled, they were engraved on stone tablets. Now the stone tablets have "broken", the LAWS are written into human's heart! May be too "deep" for u to understand.

Chinese calender is "unique"- has 29 day a month(small month), 30 day a month(big month), no 31 day a month, 3-year-1-闰月. This lunar year is super-long, having 384 days. Since yesterday (21/5) we are now entering into the 闰四月. My son was born on lunar 四月21, I told him he has "double" birthday this year, he reaction was "huh?". When do whatever bazi or audit, ask yr fsms, "how"? When one born on a 闰月, or that year his birth-month has double month(闰月). This is a very interesting topic which tests one's understanding of the chinese calender structure. There are some "rules" to be followed while fixing the number of days-in-a-month and 闰月. Once one understood the structure, he'll clear many "myths" in the so caled these days' "fs".

What u wrote is "too common sense"=everyone knows=efficient market.Obviously, u don't get what "subject" i was on, sighzzz.

OBSERVATION of wuxing relationship is correct, however, these days' APPLICATION of wuxing concept onto "things" around our daily life is very subjective/questionable. One typical "WRONG" application example is the placement of appliances in kitchen. Why? Appliances are DEAD, they are NON-INTERDEPENDENCE in nature in anyway, unlike organs within our body. Anyway fire "burns" metel away. Earth "benifits" fire. Fire gives rise to "water".

My understanding of "altar" is where ppl put their tangible offerings onto, as sin ofering, to God. They were placed right in front OUTSIDE of the house. These days, ppls have made "altar" INDOOR, and become a tangible place where God status sits. God is a spirit who residues in ppls' heart, He "see" through ppls' heart(motive). Worship Him with "heart", not altar.

Ancient ppls not much things to do as compared with ppls of these days, hence they loved to observe movement of stars over the sky, thus developed a framework which deal with the relationship between star movements with respect to human's 12 earthy branch(yearly, not monthly, daily or hourly) and defined WHAT (don't ask me HOW they knew-herpahs through "experi,ents"?) and defined WHICH/WHAT(again don't ask me how they knew which and what)are "auspicious" and "inaupicious" during such days and hours. These ppls "strongly believed" the stars' movement (again, don't ask me HOW they knew) revealed will of HEAVEN to the HUMAN on EARTH, and "believed again" that if only HUMAN acts according to the will of HEAVEN, things that HUMAN do on EARTH will be "swee", "smooth" and "bless". My command of Chinese language actually quite up to par, and I have spent years trying finding out the "myth" or "truth" abt this, yet fee like "lost" in the middle of jungle. The 12 earthy branch and 10 heavenly stems (60 cycles) can be "broken down" into too many "possibilities" (2 millions+, if i recalled correctly) to present's "2 hr"(time) intevals. We know 1 year=365 days, 1 days= 24 hrs, 1 hr=60min, 1 min=50seconds. There are tables showing the relationships(again, dont ask me how "they" defined and combined)between each earthy branch and heavenly stem. Let face the fact that the combinations of earthy/hearthly keep changing every "2 hr" (so one day has 12 intervals). Let's assumed there are only 10 possible things human can do on eath. So there are 10 x 12 = 120 possibilities! each day. Let's ask ourselves a few fundamental qs: 1. We have how many "THINGS" to do each days? 2. HOW to define "these things" into "ausp" and "inausp"(Or, what are the rules?), wrt to each 2hr and based on one's dob? 3. Why based on one's dob as reference? Why not that particular "2hr" with respect to "things to do" and define the relaionship? Now u see professor's "points" of reasoning? My conclusion: the present's "asup", "inasup" definition wrt to earthy/heavenly stem are overly "simplified" to an extend which "lost" its "meaning".

Do u understand what is "黄道吉日" and "黑道凶日", 皇历, star constellation?? How they come about? These are "rules" of the "game", or "corner stones of the house". Hope to win a game, an individual must first understand its rules, perfect his skills, practice and practice, then got chance to win. If u're not sure of rules of the game and take part in it, 你会输得不明不白。U better believe me.

Put it simple (doesn't mean "easy" hor): 1. Since fsm has given you so much psychological burdens, forego the deposit, therefore no "2nd opinion" is needed. Proceed house hunting. 2. Buy the house, "remember" what the 1st fam said, then seek for 2nd fsm, 3rd fsm... until your psychological needs get fulfilled (like sort of feeling, wow, finally got ppls buy "more expensive" than you, you feel happy, or not so "unfortunate"). 3. Completely forget what 1st fsm said, buy & stay. SO, now become 1,2,3 mcq. I take 3.

Brain storming becomes "pouring cold water"??. Cold water makes everybody wakeups also not bad leh. - Do RIGHT thing, not do thing RIGHT. Remember, no matter how nice u do on the WRONG thing, it is still wrong. Do right thing and do it right is the key. - Effectiveness comes before efficiency, always. Same as leadership(set directions) comes b4 management(day-to-day). Why care so much about the house's what direction?. Care less whether from windows, ming tang(a very confused concept and term), door, gate, or from roof top. The air circulation (u better go & study geography, astronomy) heat effect, sunlight, noise, neighbour(humanity)etc etc....are most important. Should put the "direction" on its surroundings lah. You buy the house, you already decided its surroundings meaning you have already "done" 80% of fs on your own liao. Very "little"(only 20%, agar agar)fsms can do, esp hdb, condo units. Landed is another story.