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Ya lor...my HB also chin chai person, tats y sometimes he show concern to his colleague, ppl willl get the wrong idea...signz....this is his chararcter....there is nothing I can change.

Ask yr hubby to set his hp to silent tone in future...unless his job is 24 hrs on standby, else I dun c y tis guy shd keep on "disturbing" him outside office hours. If he cannot get yr hubby after many times, tink he will get the idea and stop calling. It can be very irritating lor... I tink he is a gay....or he got no friends to turn to when he needs help. No work related still can cal yr HB......tats funny!

Wah.......is he a gay?

Really ah? Bt Bo pian lor....altar already not in main door liao.....Dunno will offend the buddha or not??

Actually al along I hv been doing so cos I like to see for myself wat actually happens....haa...to see with yr own eyes is betta than wat ppl say! Thanks for all the advice. I feel so much betta.... To all the married women out there, guard yr husband and makes him tink y r the best as compared to the wild flowers outside.

Just keep monitoring....and shower yr HB with more love and concern.... Tis is wat I am doing now... Funny thing is after tis incident, our relationship becomes stronger leh...

Ya...precisely. Mabbe they feel happy and satisfied if they can make married man fall in love with them. Some are so pervert one lor... I do hope I can sense it immediately if anything goes wrong cos it is a torture if everyone noes and u are the last one to noe.... If they noe the word "shame", they would not hv done tat... anyway I hv made known to HB earlier on before he starts his sales job, tat I will not tolerate any nonsense and once a mistake is done, then tats it, no negotiation. Everything will be OVER! I hope he gets it and I mean wat I say. I will not show a hostile face in front of his colleagues cos I wants to remain calm and cool on my side....Unhappy things will be settled at home. Never wash yr dirty linens in public and dun show the woman u r unhappy....tis will make her more happy!

I always hand wash my bras and panties, they will last longer.... My HB super "pantang" type....says I can nvr wash together... So I always wash his boxers with the normal clothes.... Then hand wash mine thrice a week lor...

Bt the plm is my hubby is those type who dun like to be too close to colleagues. It is really surprised that he will join yesterday....probably he is on good term with the birthday guy... He tried to explain to me tat he is also v scared of tis colleague. He says she is those "feng sao" type....very "teh" one la....And everyone is actually possiping abt her and the other guy whoms she kissed yesterday. It is not tat I dun trust him, somehow I dun feel secure with tis colleague around. If I dun noe, then I can turn a blind eye, bt now that I come to noe, I really feel uneasy abt it.... Y some woman are like tat???? I just dun understand! My HB noes I am those type whom dun like to drag matters and we will talk openly immediately if both of us dun like certain things..... Bt we managed to talk it out la....bt I still feel insecure, Bt I did not tell him.... I just recall, that Miss A told me yesterday "tink properly before u wanna hv a baby, yr HB may not lok at u after u give birth"! Wat is tis, say such things in our 1st meet up, as if I am very close to her.....She really leaves me a very bad impression!

Yes, indeed! I am feeling very very jealous now....and furious and my mind is running wild... To be honest, I tink she lose to me la....she is fatter than me, I am 50kg, 160cm.... I tink she mabbe 56kg... And she loks older than me, in actual fact she told me she is in her 30s la.... I dunno...I just cannot accept it and I also cannot ask my hubby to quit just like tat cos I believes everyway is the same. Fyi, my hubby was a regular in the Airforce for the last 10 years and I never felt insecure before. This is the 1st time!

I just came back from a KTV pub with my hubby and his colleagues. One of his colleagues' birthday and I tort mabbe should entertain la...so we went down. Hubby is in the sales line and all along I tried to sound him out whether his company gt chio ladies or not and he told me all plump plump ones. I dun really believe lor cos I was in sales line before and I noe in and out one la. Actually true la, in his company, most of the ladies are plump plump ones. Bt I really cannot stand 1 of his colleagues lor - Miss A. She is married with 1 kid and my hubby told me all along she and her husband gt plms one....And when we just sit down, she just "jiou" my hubby play 5-10. I tink nothing of it cos it is only a game and I play "bluff" with his bosses and some other colleagues. Then tis Miss A drank more and more and like more and more bold lor..starts smoking, then hug with other colleagues here and there and keep on asking my hubby to dance. And keep on telling me my hubby keep bullying her in office and "suan" her. Bt from a woman's sixth sense, I tink she is trying to get close to us lor. And when my hubby talks to me putting his hand over my shoulders, she will interrupts and say "No lovely dovey" here and here no husband and wife one...no one brings their husbands/wifes along.... Wat does tis means????? I was v pissed off by then lor. Then when we were abt to leave, I saw her hugging and kissing another married colleague. I was shocked! Mabbe I am too conservative, bt I cannot accept and I still tink my hubby is very close to her. As my hubby needs to work late every nite, I wonder if it is really WORK lor. Who noes they goes out...mabbe I am too sensitive bt I cannot help it lor. My girlfriend whom had biz dealings with my hubby told me there is once she called my hubby and there is a lady talking inside his car, bt with a grp of them la.... I dunno now, I show my hubby a black face just now.....I am just too pissed off... If u were me, wat would u do? Trust him or not? After tis incident, I dun tink I hv the confidence to let him hang ard with his colleagues for these celebrations lor...

Chinese partition to block off the windows? How? Any pic to show? Btw, the 3 panel window faces MSCP, and the FSM hangs a "HU LU" at the window grill.

Photo is taken from the main door. This is CONFIRMED! The altar face to another long stretch of windows at the balcony. Main door is South East while the 3 panel window is North West.

Ho Ahnah, View from main door. Issit ok? Needs any remedy?

Ok...will try to post tonite...

How abt Divans?

Then if from main door see window (3 panels) but not full heights one ok not? Need anything to block?

No worries....I am sure u will be preggy one day... I understand the disappointment....but I believes one day if we were to get preggy, then we will treasure more than anyone else. Right? Mabbe u r busy with yr reno....sometimes we dun noe we are stressed. Relax and lets work hard!

Sometimes kids can maintain a marriage....my hubby and I had 2 person's life for so long and very sianz liao....been trying for kids for few years liao...bt no luck lor.... But I do admit he is still as loving la....mabbe tat is a console to me lor.....

I bought mine from Ikea. Length can be adjusted.

Can anyone of us also do the same? Wat sort of coins? Those with words on it lie "Cai Yuan Guan Jin"?

Bt I dun tink so rite? Mine face the windows.... Cos of the design of the house... And my FS master says its good to put in my current position cos if face main door, my neighbours are very inconsiderate to have bamboo sticks put in the corridor and directly facing into the direction of my main door...Sianz.....So dun tink put my altar facing the main door cos they r hanging bras and underwears....**** inconsiderate lor....

Hi scoria76, U did the test already? Feel so excited for u...... Hope u gt a positive sign this time round....

Yup...I replied already....

Can heat it up before consuming...the taste wil not be so weird...