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full WAT leather? full fake...or full real...or full man-made....full PU...Full synthetic? think must ask courts...wat leather they meants..

hear or read from somewhere....put a silver spoon in the fridge...apply on your face....to reduce puff puff

yes. i went yesterday...sis in law bought one 42" FULL HD 8000:1 contrast duno wat....and delivey yesterday too. $1599 so tempted...but i dun like the design..keke.. bought wireless, auto tuning headphone to watch tv at night while hubby is sleeping....$129...a uncle who bought it says it is good and easy to use....

i dun agree nor disagree. Marriage does need small excitement, impromptu projects and surprises and fun along the way to last till god knows when. To last a marriage for ...we are not talking about 5 or 10 years...but 40 years....... of cos...reality is it will get calm, steady, stable aka BORING...but it cant get exciting and passion EVERYDAY. No matter what you do, even being a SXXXX or BXXCH.....it will even get routine...no matter wat sweet talk your man says, what kinds of flowers he buys....or heavenly beach resort he brings you.....it will get ROUTINE and BORING...even his beer belly and cheeky smiles...get digusting .it is like...to eat birdnest everything..will taste like plain water eventually. thats why both parties got to, at times, do different things ....at times...give space...on holiday with gf or buddies without spouse...at interval....launch small home improvement projects, or exercise plan together.... sometimes simple days...something exciting...enrichment... get a tattoo together is exciting too... hope all loves each other forever.

Be it watever packages, as long as mothers show the same drive and committment to work, i think employers would still employ them and put equal weightage in performance. the packages just made it sweeter for mother to be whom at the same time full of drive and committment to work. Cos they would have best of both worlds then.

bad....if like that, i would prefer to work with male colleagues loh.... frankly, i do notice a difference between those with kids and those without. Those with kids , i guess they are tired at night when looking after toddlers or infant, mostly applies to new mothers. Or, they are tired at night, made it to office, but looks tired in office too. As such, they may fall sick more often. may lah..this is what i observe in my working environment. 2nd time mothers are better, they manage better too. I do agree that there is nothing wrong with knocking off punctually due to family committment or not bring work home. It is a personal choice.

my personal opinion is confusion and misunderstanding are created when couples are not opened in communication. What is the point of privacy when both parties are committed to marriage and staying with each other thru thick and thin throughout their lives.... if keep harping on rights of privacy...even bills, salary, credit card spending, sms and emails or phone calls can be used as rights of privacy. Going with frens but not saying who they are, toking to frens but not telling whats the content...the list goes on and there is no way to draw the line. each person will have his own area of privacy which may not be deemed important to the other party. Where to draw the line? Without privacy, all is opened and shared. i believe this create lesser confusion, suspicious feeling, misunderstanding and lesser guessing games.

men..sometimes so easy to understand...got eat..sleep..play...happy liao...dun make them think too much or plan too much...sometimes so difficult....not straight to them point...hint hint and expect us to read their minds... marriage is indeed a tiring and rewarding affair...and maintaining & building of trust and faith is always an on going project... how long have u all been married? or having another GF? hehe

so far..u have trained her well? haha

no lah cantona...jus trying to narrowing the possibilities mah...money...woman...health...work... since it is not, most likely not money or work....then it will be woman or health... woman prob : to determine one sided or both sided prob...he into some r/s..or aviod advances? nowadays woman are quite agressive hor... now nobody knows who is sender of those emails and pics....cannot judge by email address leh....but cannot see the actual real sender.... thats why...HT Devil, dun do anything irrational that will give other pple chance to make the whole situation worst....calm..calm...think think..plan plan

now times are different, male or female are more courageous enuff to seek their true love. If current marriage or relationship is not good enough, divorced is not a crime. if that married man or married woman is the one true love (albeit late), as long as that man or woman is alive, the 3rd party still has a chance. Nothing wrong with divorce. there is not security by just being in a marriage, but one to constantly secure it as there are many external factors. There is no stopping other women to come after married man jus becos he is married. vice versa. As long as that is a good person (character, personalities, financial), other pple wan it too. i have yet to walk that path..hopefully will not...but seen many real life examples....

6 years liao ah.... so far no suggestion of money prob.. so far u mention : late night unanswered calls (since are around)...not sure if he will answer if u are not around? check calls history?? who call in...who call out...duration of calls...sms.... artistic photos : s_x prob?.... but if he comes back every night...maybe situation not so bad....not yet disappearing act huh... maybe two of u go for short gateaway? just suggesting...u the best person to assess the situation....watever u do...dun give 3rd party a chance to step in....be objective....breathe.....

tot man seldom change...mostly it is the woman who changes...haha....

i also know cannot accuse him of anything when there is no strong evidence....nor keep happing and nagging at him will help. can wait and observe...within a reasonable time frame.... but woman just cant simply sit there and wait silently..new era liao...now is openess...i not sure about others..but me and hubby share email accounts..cos easlier for frens to email us updates and share jokes. we open each other letters and mails and stack nicely, nothing wrong leh...not that i am a millionaire or secretlly tio toto....nothing much to hide also.... we should also take matters to our own hands to apply some strategy to detect abnormalities....hehee..abit overdone here..... now HT devil case...not clear yet..dunno what is happening....y so upset over naked photos? unless it is naked photos of that insurance agent...or else internet can get such photo easily lah....? maybe thats the reason he dun wan to tell u cos you get upset over dirty jokes and such artisitic photos??? maybe he will tell u when u ready to accept...thou i dunno much about you lah...

i going to...hope to get a noise-cancellation earphone for inflight...and lightbulbs too...

no need photos lah..online so many travel blogs and stockphoto....travel programs and guide books....same same...

cute pink :but they not bf gf leh...not dating period or honeymoon period leh...already into a marriage..there should be openess, sharing. this is not a norm? issnt openess already establish before marriage....? this my own thinking lah....i tot to reach the stage of marriage means all has been opened shared settled and forgiven. ht devil : maybe the one emailing is not that lady but lady's bf / hubby? conveniently using that email address? maybe ur hubby receive more than 100 junk / spam email...after delete...wats left is those emails u saw...meaning actually still got many emails from others. we cant stop wat others wants to email to us leh....check his outbox or 'sent' box...cos this one is your hubby's own actions.

actually since u already decided to redo kitchen and bath room...might as well do the living room too...the incremental cost not alot....cos u would have to pay for haulage and disposal anyway.... once u shift in...u cant do it cos it will be dirty and so much to clean and clean and pack....and u got to pay for haulage and disposal again... think of long run....

i tot u go with your wtb? imagine carry 2 pieces of 20kg luggage up and down the stairs of train station....then up 3 floor of hotel....after tht u dun wan to go anywhere liao...shag.... i did once...3 storey up at asakusa station...and 3 storey up khaosan hostel... every go out or go back is the same...3 + 3. but dirt cheap lah...the room so so so small...like the HHS...double bunk bed...and NOTHING else... 1 hour away from city and all the jazz....if u got time but no money...then ok loh..the most u wake up early to go out...and reach hotel late late... shinjuku...big and messy..never like that place...prefer akihabara, okachimachi, ueno,

before situation get worse..eg. not coming home...strangers start calling u instead... i remember my hubby at previous previous job..there was one super big project....almost a 5month project...he so stress out..he jus sit **** room sofa and stare blankly to the tv screen...eat quiet dinner...sleep...no talk at all....no go out with me at all....and of cos....tok on phone all the time..late nights too... maybe your hubby got some super big project going on....maybe...just give him some time..

maybe at the mean time..suggest leave him alone for awhile to settle whatever personal issues he MAY have with work or frens or watever...continue ur observation....but set a time frame ba.... pretend to ignore and do your own ting... sigh......wat prob so big...cannot discuss leh...

thats why...since he not toking yet...find more info from other sources....before narrowing down the possibilities... bank statment -- don have (his company take cash.) he dun have personal saving account? credit card not at new places...why? where is it? parent house? go there to look? his parents & siblings notice anything?

hmm...check other sources....close frens...siblings...best frens...bank statement..credit card statements.... does he bring hp to toilet? spend long time with hp in toilet? either money..or women...

i presume his is husband or at least husband to be...he is the best person to ask. tell him how u feel, if got prob...try to resolve...maybe he own pple money? if he dun wan to answer the calls, why dun he off the phone before sleep....or switch to silent mode.... if he wanna hide something...he will off the phone or put to silent mode. since he let it ring..and even disturb u...means he not really 'hiding' yet not so forthcoming with his prob... could be the prob affect him only..... so many if and imaginary answer.....ask him

to find less than $100 and yet a hotel is indeed difficult, unless u dun mind hostel or sharing toilet. but then again...to pay $88 for no toilet and $100 with toilet...the saving not that great...consider the free breakfast, and towels, toothbrush...shampoo...stuff.... normally minshuku or hostel has no elevator..so imagine carrying your luggages up 3 floors..or located at train station that has no elevator too...i am scarying u...i been to the country 5 times...and stayed in all kinds very cheap hostel : http://www.khaosantokyo.com/ not so exp taiwanese minshuku : http://www.kamatahouse.com/new.html not so expensive taiwanese inn : http://www.changtee.com/ furnished apartment : http://www.weeklycenter.co.jp/ decent clean + priced hotel at love hotel areas : http://www.h-cerezo.com/ nice room and breakfast : http://www.hvf.jp/eng/