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me too! i'll display my gentleness when i request favours from hubby esp buying expensive things. he said his life is only good when i want to buy expensive things or else miserable. !! !!

erm, what sad?? i really don't get you leh. i don't have phobia now liao b'cos MIL isn't around anymore. !! now only left FIL.

ya, HSH21's idea is not bad and maybe karen can try doing so. i guess you should approach this matter clamly (i mean when you aren't so jealous and furious liao) and think of methods how to deal with it. or else your hubby may not be happy about it. if not, end up you all may quarrel very often about this matter and affect the relationship.

karen, i understand how you feel now b'cos i was in your shoes years ago. you must be feeling very jealous and start to feel insecure now. you'll start to think whether miss A and your hubby will be together during working time. !! how does miss A look like? attractive?

actually, i know my hubby's character quite well. just like men are really quite different from women in many ways.

ya, somehow you're correct about men lor.

i don't quite understand.

sometimes, hubby also sided others instead of me. he said i was the one in wrong. blah blah blah.

i don't hand wash b'cos i afraid my hands become rough. usually, i put them into the washer. itchy? no lah.

i prefer sliding doors b'cos more convenient when want to open the doors at public carpark. the space in public carpark is so limited.

is your wife a indonesian chinese? ya lor, i also just play play with him. but ahnah took it seriously that i really beat my hubby. hahaha.

how can human compare with toys.

why huh? why want to possess when doesn't have love?

then your laundry and your hubby's don't wash together lor. usually, i put bra and panties into different laundry bags to wash.

i'll recommend you toyota previa (a toyota agent car), it's the same as toyota estima (a parallel importer car). hubby's brother bought this toyota previa and i notice it's very spacious than normal MPV cars. the doors are sliding type. http://www.toyotasingapore.com.sg/cars/new...revia/index.asp

ya lor. hubby also very glue to his xbox. that's one of his hobby! hehe, agree that we should dress up ourselves so that to let him knows that we still got value. nowadays, outside girls are very scary and vain esp teenagers. they don't care whether the man is older than them or married, they still go after him.

whether boy or girl i'm ok with it so is hubby. hubby said whether boy or girl, after all he/she is our baby so doesn't matter!

so, you've already decided to stay with A and continue to act for the rest of your life??? are you sure??? if so, don't regret it AGAIN. erm, can i ask you something? what type of a man is A? i mean what does he do for a living? how old is he? how does he look? does he have all the 4Cs? if he's so d-a-m-n good then i'm sure there're many women out there who want him. why he just doesn't want to let you go?

wah, got such a woman?! although i'd phobia with MIL in the past (but she isn't around anymore) but at least i didn't do such an evil thing. whether in laws good or not just tolerate lor. or maybe sometimes complain to hubby only.

haha. ya, 'ta shi ai, ma shi deng'. nowadays, i always automatically hold hubby's hand and he also starts to hold mine. you married indonesian woman? why? she doesn't dare to beat you lah, of course. you married her to spore mah. hubby knows when i beat him and i'm just play play only. you think i really go and abuse him meh.

indonesia woman?? i don't have a good impression about them. i also always beat my hubby.

seem like your friends have many relationship problems.

i agree with those in red. "ang moh" men dare to express their appreciation and love openly whereas SG men are 'paisey" to do it. correct! men should never lay a finger onto women!

ya, SG men are harsh with their words. why? i saw "ang moh" men aren't like that leh. they often speak very softly to their gf/wives. not effective after sometimes leh. he'll be numb liao or maybe even

ya, sometimes hubby also likes to raise his voice loudly in the public. why men like to do that? usually, i'll pretend to cry but this tactic doesn't seem to work after sometimes. i've tried to live without men for the past 21 years. there're good and bad lor. good is nobody quarrel with you and more peaceful, not many problems too. bad is you feel lonely when you see another couples. nobody celebrate Vday with you and nobody share your joys. hug and kisses? not easy, manz. when he's , he'll not bother hug and kisses anymore.