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although drawing closer but still have a big difference of $400k leh. ok lah, seriously back to topic...

(in red) the difference between 200k and 600k is a lot leh. a difference of 400k!! erm, so cannot said drawing closer. maybe your relative is one of the rare cases. but hor, i really dislike the qualities (refer to the windows, workmanship, odd shape etc) of a hdb flat. haiz... alright, let back to the topic. off topic liao...

when to "an chuang"? how many days, weeks or months in advance to do "an chuang"?

ya, i somehow agree with you (in red). but the prices for condo and hdb flats aren't drawing closer leh. condo can be as expensive as millions dollars. there're bigger floor area condo too. those 4 bedrooms condo and penthouses. i don't get you. poor people stay in condos (b'cos cannot buy hdb)???

i love this sentence! sometimes, i wonder is it all relationships are like that??? your circumstance is quite similar to mine. sometimes, quarrel then said hurtful words. but i never ever think of looking for another new guy b'cos i love my hubby no matter what. wow, envy these couples a lot. so "en ai".

congratulation to all of you! wow, you waited 3 and a half years huh?! how come hdb take so long to build flats? condo takes about 1 year plus. ya, some of the fences had already removed. i witnessed the building progress everyday b'cos i stay at holland so i often will drive past commonwealth. but i feel that the interior of the flat should be quite cramped and the exterior painting colors are ugly. dark colors. sometimes, i really can't stand hdb flats anymore. lousy quality and strange structures. when we visited centris condo showflat and the agent told us that don't buy condo with multi-storey carparks b'cos no different from hdb multi-storey carparks, might as well stay in a hdb flat. we somehow agree to what the agent said. she said usually condo will have basement carparks instead of multi-storey carparks.

i see. poor thing. "jia you"!

LL, how your rom?

LL, your job seen very stressful leh. ya, if i were LL and i already left the job liao. i can't stand and will resign that type. haha.

so you haven't resigned lor. i heard you mentioned about changing job from last year until now.

but sometimes, ren too much and you'll explode one fine day if you can't ren anymore. ya, communication is one of the main "ingredients". but sometimes, it's also difficult to communicate if the other party doesn't want to listen to you. wow, so many "ingredients" huh! i asked this qns b'cos i saw many couples who are very old liao and they're still holding each other hands while walking on the street. i envy them a lot. so i was thinking, what are their "ingredients" to a successful marriage?

i see. how could some guys used such trick! if you were one of those gals, what'll you do?

i want to ask opinions from all of you. what are the "ingredients" for a successful marriage?

what do you mean? can explain more?

LL, you resigned from your job liao huh?

customise soft toys?? never heard before and sure not cheap. why want to spend so much on soft toys?

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that's good. must think positively. ya, me too. i also have no power to make my man to go against his family for me. he protects his family esp his parents.

how did you know he had done all these? who told you? then you should confront him.

i don't understand those in red. b'cos you said that he ever bought roses and booked romantic dinner for a girl before. before we married, hubby also told me that he isn't the kind of man to give flowers. but surprisingly, after we married he bought flowers for me on every valentine's day. but i feel that buying flowers are a waste of $$$. i prefer to have a romantic dinner instead. and something valuable too.

ya, agree lor. there must be something good about diva's hubby and that's why she married him.

maybe you should let known to your hubby about your concern over such matter. hubby only plans romantic surprises for me during valentine's day, my birthday, anniversary etc. he told me that if everyday romantic surprises then will feel very numb therefore romantic surprises cannot make it everyday.

pretty has what to do with birthday celebration?? i'm just an ordinary looking lady. hubby feels that birthday is always more impt than proposal. i why. hubby didn't really propose to me. we just decided to get marry then marry.

huh? why mentioned me again? ya, agree!