erms.. i do keep savings apart from hubby. but we oso have a common acct.

he knows my pay, n i knows his pay. every mth we set aside an amt pre discussed based on our pay n put it in our common acct. watever excess fr our own spending money goes into our personal acct.

he does not keep from me de amt in his personal acct n neither do i. but of cos i wun purposely go check how much is in his acct n he wun check how much is in my personal acct. since it's personal, watever he does in tat acct i wun interfere. n neither will he interfere in mine

no point keep secretly for guys. in the even of failed marriage, still got issues.

what i did was I use my Pte Ltd as my savings account. that way, even if the marriage failed. the $ still cant touch.

I used to share - let my partner awares how much is my saving. After I get to know, my partner kept a secret from me instead, I choose to keep mute as my partner is.