korea 0 Report post Posted May 13, 2007 hi, let vote! why? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
HSH21 1 Report post Posted May 14, 2007 (edited) None of the above... I love my children more... Edited May 14, 2007 by HSH21 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
applefreak 1 Report post Posted May 14, 2007 i vote myself coz no one will love you if you dun learn to love yourself Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
threecharacters 0 Report post Posted May 14, 2007 i vote myself coz no one will love you if you dun learn to love yourself Have to agree with this. Loving myself means being self-respecting and that means a more equal relationship... sharing of joys and burdens. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chunky Monkey 2 Report post Posted May 14, 2007 I love my husband more. And he loves me more. So it works out beautifully. We have had many discussions about our marriage before. When we take care of each other's hearts well, all will be well. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LinDa 0 Report post Posted May 14, 2007 i love him more.. when he is happy, i'm happy.. when he is not happy, i'm not happy.. i can only thrive in my work when i know he is happy.. when he is not happy, i can't focus on my work or anything i do.. i'm a 'xiao nu ren'..I love my husband more. And he loves me more. So it works out beautifully. We have had many discussions about our marriage before. When we take care of each other's hearts well, all will be well.envy.. i lack communication with my hubby before marriage, now we are still fumbling along.. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
korea 0 Report post Posted May 14, 2007 sometimes, i love myself more and sometimes i love hubby more than myself. haiz. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
karen77sg 0 Report post Posted May 15, 2007 I love myself more....bt I also love him la....For my case, my HB loves me more than I loves him.Even he can feel tat......haa....I am more rationale ba.... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LinDa 0 Report post Posted May 15, 2007 I love myself more....bt I also love him la....For my case, my HB loves me more than I loves him.Even he can feel tat......haa....I am more rationale ba....but i find loving the other party more or less has no relation with straying lei.. i've seen people whom love their partners more than their partners love them but still stray.. i feel both must love as much then the relationship will be soild, strong and stable.. when one person love the other too much and its not reciprocated, they might start diverting this extra love somewhere else where they their feelings get appreciated and return.. its true that it takes two hands to clap.. else one hand want to clap the other don't want also no sound.. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
whiteivory 0 Report post Posted May 16, 2007 depends lor..When I get my pay at the end of month, I love myself more by spending more on my shopping, then maybe buy him one or two pieces.When we quarrel, I love myself more because this is "his fault".When he confides in me or buys me the thing that I have been eyeing or give me small surprises, then I love him more. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
karen77sg 0 Report post Posted May 16, 2007 depends lor..When I get my pay at the end of month, I love myself more by spending more on my shopping, then maybe buy him one or two pieces.When we quarrel, I love myself more because this is "his fault".When he confides in me or buys me the thing that I have been eyeing or give me small surprises, then I love him more.Wah...u very practical.... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
whiteivory 0 Report post Posted May 16, 2007 Wah...u very practical.... :notti:When he goes shopping with his pay, he didnt buy me anything, but yet I offer my "personal shopper service". But when I shop, I usually shop alone, without him staring at me impatiently, when I browse through the racks. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
karen77sg 0 Report post Posted May 16, 2007 :notti:When he goes shopping with his pay, he didnt buy me anything, but yet I offer my "personal shopper service". But when I shop, I usually shop alone, without him staring at me impatiently, when I browse through the racks.Normally guys dun like shopping one....mine too.! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
whiteivory 0 Report post Posted May 16, 2007 yup, so is a rare gem if any hb likes to shop with the wife, esp in the ladies dept.So now our solution to this problem is we will go to our men and ladies dept separately, then meet again somewhere later. But I am always the one spending more time than him. haha. In the end, he still has to come back to the ladies to look for me. I think I have this type of possessiveness personality. When I like a certain thing, eg shoe, I always have this urge to buy two in dif colours. But of coz, I no tai tai. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
karen77sg 0 Report post Posted May 16, 2007 yup, so is a rare gem if any hb likes to shop with the wife, esp in the ladies dept.So now our solution to this problem is we will go to our men and ladies dept separately, then meet again somewhere later. But I am always the one spending more time than him. haha. In the end, he still has to come back to the ladies to look for me. I think I have this type of possessiveness personality. When I like a certain thing, eg shoe, I always have this urge to buy two in dif colours. But of coz, I no tai tai. Me 2! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
