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Should I Be Honest Tell The Agent That Im Not Paying?
therat replied to lovenest's topic in Rent/Sell Properties
if u don't want to pay, don't use her service put urself in her shoe how would u like.. after spending time and effort, then ppl don't want to pay u. U work, do u expect pay from ur boss Be fair to ppl. They also working class. Need to bring rice home Tell her upfront. -
Time For Pre-school...what Is Good?
therat replied to lovenest's topic in Pregnancy,Parenthood and Education Matters
don't look at the cerf cerf is not everything.. should look at the school and talk to the teacher -
my husband previous job need him to 24 hrs 7 days stand by.. couple of time.. in the midnight, middle of movie, visit his mother, dinner... client or boss page him , ask him to go down to support. once I wake up and ask.. where are u going.. he told me.. I just come back.. I go out twice liao.. u don't know meh later he change job to regular office hr... which he kenna pay cut due to the lost of 1K allowance..
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Sould I Change Hospital?
therat replied to lynzi's topic in Pregnancy,Parenthood and Education Matters
my ex-colleague.. whenever she sit too long or stand too long. she will get backache. Other colleague say.. it is due to epidural.... That's why, they encourage me.. don't take don't take.. -
yah.. he got 4 brothers, 1 sister but.. in term of aunt and uncle.. I'm the most.. until now, he still cannot remember which cousin is belong to which aunt.. hahahaha
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give me five.. I only dislike my husband, 2nd and 4th brother.. the elder brother.. after so many year stay together (under 1 root) I arga arga know his character.. so the impression not that bad compare to 1st time. After marry ... even better.. His wife really change him. his 3rd brother and 3rd SIL is the best. His SIL that time also tell my MIL, if she want.. she can come to stay with them (when we plan to get marry)
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Sould I Change Hospital?
therat replied to lynzi's topic in Pregnancy,Parenthood and Education Matters
for epidural.. make sure the person do it is experience.. I heard before.. the person try 3X then get the correct position... the mother pain like don't know what.. c-secion.. yes yes.. operation.... epidural.. is a pain release.. to inject ur backbone.. some people want to maintence their hourglass shape, they choose c-section. But c-section got a time frame and number of time to use.... The last heard is must within 1 yrs cannot have 2 c-section total use.. 3X -
ohh.. weekday .. my MIL house weekend.. my own house.. Siao.. bought over my MIL house.. he wait long long.. ur is sister making use of her brother mine is brother in law making use of his own brother wife.. I more piss off....
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Sould I Change Hospital?
therat replied to lynzi's topic in Pregnancy,Parenthood and Education Matters
go for c-section.. this one not pain one.. don't scare don't scare.. -
still staying with my MIL since day 1 I get marry. I don't say.. I hate to stay with my MIL but u know.. every women dream to had their own home. I tell u 1 suggestion which suggest by this brother He suggest I (alone) brought my MIL 4 room flat. Then he + elder brother + my MIL + my husband go and buy a condo for investment. When I told my friend, my friend ask me. Do u have a share on the profit? If u brought ur MIL flat, her elder son still staying with her , right? Then that mean, u pay the flat to let ur MIL,ur elder BIL to stay. MIL ok.. consister ur mother. Why that elder BIL who earn more than u (he is a manager). will the elder brother give u rent? when i heard it, .. ya lor.. how come I never think abt this. In the end, I told my husband. No.. I don't want to buy ur Mother flat. If I brought, in further our marriage don't work out. As the flat is mine, I will ask ur mother, brother to move out. Don't say.. I didn't tell u in advance. For that onward, I dislike this brother..
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ai ya.. which forum.... he only post this thread in renotalk. I do a google.. got tone of Barc come out.. another brother popping out... haha.. my BIL also pop out out of sudden. come back to his mother house and stay. When we want to get marry, ask him to stay with his mother so that we can move out. He say.. don't want.. give the reason "bedok is far away from Town". In the end, my husband elder brother , his mother and we stay in my MIL 4 rm flat. Now.. out of sudden come back and share the room with his elder brother. And his elder brother also marry liao. wife stay in JB. But sometime weekend come and stay with her husband (which is the elder brother). Then he go and sleep in the sofa. I want to see.. how long he want to maintence like that... BTW, he don't have a bed.. he has a chair that can bend 30degree down. Like those airplane seat. He sleep on the chair 30 degree down.
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Sould I Change Hospital?
therat replied to lynzi's topic in Pregnancy,Parenthood and Education Matters
east shore also had.... breakfast, lunch , dinner for new mother For KKH, if u don't ask, they don't give. My friend stay in KKH 1 person 1 room one. They give her those normal food (not for new mother type) but after the pain.. when u see the baby.. everything is worth it don't scare don't scare.. -
where?
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What You Would Expect From Govt To Improve The Mother-career Balance
therat replied to raincole's topic in Wedding & Travel
i think.. in future married and have few kid will be easy to get job single.. will get marry.. but not so soon to have kid just marry.. high chance -
What You Would Expect From Govt To Improve The Mother-career Balance
therat replied to raincole's topic in Wedding & Travel
the gov pay the company but they need to re-arrange the work , right.. when they go for reservice 2 week, who take after the work. A case come out in newspaper before. The interview told a singaporean male.. reservice is stupid. If not b'coz of the quota, he will not employ a singaporean male. In the end, the company offer him but he didn't take up. As he was piss of by the interview talk and.. under this company.. when u go reservice, u think they will not give u face to see meh The newspaper didn't mention the company name.. but.. hehe.. in forum.. already .. talk like nobody businese liao.. All know which company.. -
Sould I Change Hospital?
therat replied to lynzi's topic in Pregnancy,Parenthood and Education Matters
delivery confirm chop chop SURE scream... then what u want.. singing arr.. The thing I feel is different is in KKH, they prefer normal birth. Mean.. unless ur baby position wrong or sth else.. then they will go for op If not.. u can stay in the hosiptal for 72 hrs.. taking induce pill (don't know spell correct or not) and wait for normal birth In private, u had the right to say.. I want to go for op. Zoom.. op room Or.. take induce injection for 4 hrs, 6 hrs or 8 hrs then give birth. Depend what type of delivery u want AND where is ur gyne? I follow my gyne. An example My friend give birth @ KKH. She stay there for > 2 day then give birth. Taking pills, etc.. then have to transfer from the delivery room and her room. To and fro, everytime, she feel , baby coming out Me.. @ Eastshore.. I go for induce 8 hrs. Check-in in the morning and stay in the delivery room until my baby come out. I go for induce b'coz my blood pressure going up.. bo pian.. -
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What You Would Expect From Govt To Improve The Mother-career Balance
therat replied to raincole's topic in Wedding & Travel
haha some company don't want to employ singaporean male b'coz they need to go for reservice like that.. They will only employ PR as 1. PR don't need to go NS 2. PR under the same quota class as singaporean. 3. PR less than 3 yrs, their CPF contridution from the employer is lesses -
faint.. so are u going to do a balance sheet with the expense that your kid had since the day 1
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having kid and expect them to support us during old age.. 2 different issue nowsdays, standard of living getting higher and higher.. by the kid time. to support parent and his own family is too much for him to handle. Like our parent time, they expect their son to stay with them even after marry but DIL and MIL issue always happen. Don't expect too much from the kid so that u will not disappoint too much hope too much, disappointed too much..
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What You Would Expect From Govt To Improve The Mother-career Balance
therat replied to raincole's topic in Wedding & Travel
they should educate or set up law for the company to follow. they only know how to give guideline guideline and some company don't even look at it.. b'coz just a guideline.. not by law -
yeah lor.... when i sick.. came and see me, don't thrown me in the hosiptal.. I will be happy liao
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yeah lor yeah lor
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what army say.. u can do whatever u want, just don't get caught can liao.. !!
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if tio caught , this is not an excuse. Owner can say.. agent mislead me.. but HDB will say.. why u didn't check. unless u are elderly who don't know ang mo.. HDB might not give a hard time.. the rest.. hehe..