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count me in! this is the icon with one hand up: :yamseng: or this: :yeah: hahaha~

well now pple are usually prepared to make a loss for wedding cos banquet price increases steadily but not the ang pao cost :lol:

initially we also wanted a simple church wedding, we ended up with a church wedding and 2 banquets, thanks to our parents and relatives........... :P

maybe your turn will come soon leh! hee hee :lol:

Ya man, some are still stuck in the idea that a dinner is still at year 2000 rate... but ouch... these days I only pick the weddings of close friends (or where I know both bride and groom) to attend... Really lor, it's true though, the dinner is mostly for our parents...

 

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initially we also wanted a simple church wedding, we ended up with a church wedding and 2 banquets, thanks to our parents and relatives........... :P

maybe your turn will come soon leh! hee hee :lol:

wow 2 banquets!! shiong ah....double ouch!!

haha...me? soon? ehh....unless He does something in the very near future, i dun think it'll be tt soon....

how to when i'm not even seeing anyone???....lol....

sorry dex bro, OT again....haiz.... 8|

 

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wow 2 banquets!! shiong ah....double ouch!!

haha...me? soon? ehh....unless He does something in the very near future, i dun think it'll be tt soon....

how to when i'm not even seeing anyone???....lol....

sorry dex bro, OT again....haiz.... 8|

oh so you bought your place on single scheme?

 

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Oh yes, on the topic of wedding,

It's kinda of intimidating as I haven't done much homework yet (is it too late to

go to those wedding forums> blea@)

Well my wtb and i split the bill initially, she's the wedding oic and me the reno oic..

now I'm stepping into her jobscope to make sure everythings in order.. heh

honeymoon..hmm.. after Covs, reno and now blowing the budget for wedding..

i'm don't know if I could think so far.. may have to put honeymoon on hold first..

see how it goes.. :unsure:

congrats! wedding prep not as shiong as reno.. :D

after tat can go honeymoon n relax abit~~

Hi marshmallow & manutd1972

hmm, i'm keeping my fingers crossed..

Now getting some templates from my previously new-wedded friends.. heh

The big day scheuled on 5th March..

clock is clicking..

Keep me in prayers ya?

agree! i felt that reno is at least 3x more siong than wedding prep. $$ involved also at least 3x more :lol:

btw dex, CONGRATS~! :yamseng: when is your wedding?

Hey dex bro,

advance congrats on ur wedding ah....keke....though i've nvr gone thru one b4, i'm sure wedding preps are definitely easier than renovating a house.

oh yes, TELL me about it,

I came to an actualization that wedding is NOT about the couple lor,

amongst the 30 table for banquet 28 belongs to family & their friends.. sometimes i wonder who's getting married. ha.

has anyone ever noticed the un-spoken difference in chinese and western culture? everything in western culture is abt me or us, while everything abt chinese is about others. chinese wedding is not for the wedding couple but more for the parents and relatives. a western wedding reception is all about the wedding couple.

Yuene ^ marshmallow,

think our mom's generation's still goes with elaborated weddings, must tell the whole world tt their child is all grown

up.. and here we up ending up wondering who is the aunite/ unle we are taking pics with and shaking hands at the end of dinner.. LoL

wedding pics ah..hmm let's see how it goes; wtb shy shy type :)

..And yeah, weddings are so shiong! Increasingly though, it's getting easier to hold a small quiet wedding (I didn't manage to, thanks to my mum) Congrats dex! When your wedding shoot photos are up you must let us see okay?

well now pple are usually prepared to make a loss for wedding cos banquet price increases steadily but not the ang pao cost :lol:

initially we also wanted a simple church wedding, we ended up with a church wedding and 2 banquets, thanks to our parents and relatives........... :P

maybe your turn will come soon leh! hee hee :lol:

yupz, well said.

Ya man, some are still stuck in the idea that a dinner is still at year 2000 rate... but ouch... these days I only pick the weddings of close friends (or where I know both bride and groom) to attend... Really lor, it's true though, the dinner is mostly for our parents...
 

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Hi marshmallow & manutd1972

hmm, i'm keeping my fingers crossed..

Now getting some templates from my previously new-wedded friends.. heh

The big day scheuled on 5th March..

clock is clicking..

Keep me in prayers ya?

huh? 5th mar? so near and u're only starting to plan now? tell me u're joking.

oh yes, TELL me about it,

I came to an actualization that wedding is NOT about the couple lor,

amongst the 30 table for banquet 28 belongs to family & their friends.. sometimes i wonder who's getting married. ha.

haha....yalor.

 

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One more month to go~! Jia you~ :) do let me know if you need any help... just got married ~5 mths ago, so (hopefully) some wedding info still fresh in my mind~ :lol:

maybe you can go for a short getaway at nearby destination... i feel that having a honeymoon right after wedding is actually very good and kinda... therapeutic after all the mad wedding rush :)

Oh yes, on the topic of wedding,

It's kinda of intimidating as I haven't done much homework yet (is it too late to

go to those wedding forums> blea@)

Well my wtb and i split the bill initially, she's the wedding oic and me the reno oic..

now I'm stepping into her jobscope to make sure everythings in order.. heh

honeymoon..hmm.. after Covs, reno and now blowing the budget for wedding..

i'm don't know if I could think so far.. may have to put honeymoon on hold first..

see how it goes.. :unsure:

Hi marshmallow & manutd1972

hmm, i'm keeping my fingers crossed..

Now getting some templates from my previously new-wedded friends.. heh

The big day scheuled on 5th March..

clock is clicking..

Keep me in prayers ya?

actually hor my banquet is not so big... our parents only invited close relatives and maybe 2 or 3 very close friends, but it's still A LOT because we have big familes... *faint* my hubby's mom alone already got more than 10 siblings!! then x4 for their spouse and children... wahhhhh.... :wacko:

oh yes, TELL me about it,

I came to an actualization that wedding is NOT about the couple lor,

amongst the 30 table for banquet 28 belongs to family & their friends.. sometimes i wonder who's getting married. ha.

Yuene ^ marshmallow,

think our mom's generation's still goes with elaborated weddings, must tell the whole world tt their child is all grown

up.. and here we up ending up wondering who is the aunite/ uncle we are taking pics with and shaking hands at the end of dinner.. LoL

wedding pics ah..hmm let's see how it goes; wtb shy shy type :)

 

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huh? 5th mar? so near and u're only starting to plan now? tell me u're joking.

Aiyah don't worry so much la! The night before my wedding, I was up creating a powerpoint for the service the next day lor...hahahahaha Anyway dexufto if you need any help ask us yeah?

 

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Yes, things are underway;

settling of invites covers locally, printing of invites insert+ wedding card for holy matrimony.

payment of photography/ videography/ caterers(yet to finalised! argh!)

oh yet to start on my logistics planning.. :(

will be meeting church wedding planner next sun,

oh dear, it begin to sound like a lot of things to do..

Need God's grace.

Wow!!! Really soon leh... 5th march!! All the best in your preparation.

march! tats 1mth+ away! hope u done all yr necessary preparation!

huh? 5th mar? so near and u're only starting to plan now? tell me u're joking.

Marshallow,

My mom has 10 sibilings too! LoL

Last time no internet, no blog, so next best thing is having babies and large family i guess. ;P

And thank you ladies,

for your kind offer to help;

May i ask what wedding music do you use for procession, marching/ march out?

One more month to go~! Jia you~ :) do let me know if you need any help... just got married ~5 mths ago, so (hopefully) some wedding info still fresh in my mind~ :lol:

maybe you can go for a short getaway at nearby destination... i feel that having a honeymoon right after wedding is actually very good and kinda... therapeutic after all the mad wedding rush :)

actually hor my banquet is not so big... our parents only invited close relatives and maybe 2 or 3 very close friends, but it's still A LOT because we have big familes... *faint* my hubby's mom alone already got more than 10 siblings!! then x4 for their spouse and children... wahhhhh.... :wacko:

Aiyah don't worry so much la! The night before my wedding, I was up creating a powerpoint for the service the next day lor...hahahahaha Anyway dexufto if you need any help ask us yeah?
 

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i think marriages are more siong than reno.

reno - 2 person's opinions

marriage - 6 person's opinion. (2 parents on each side and the couple)

For reno, 2 person talk it over, settle fast fast.

For marriage, can discuss untill cows go home also no conclusion.

Yes, chinese always like to "do it for the rest of the world". I was so envious of my aunt when she could get married - just go ROM, then go honeymoon. Few could do it, most have to struggle with the customs, dinner and stuff. Im the kind that "i just want to get it over and done with".

The worst outcome of wedding preparation is that "after going through all the Sh*t, parents are still not satisfied" *faints*

 

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Fast and furious, congrats again :D

Any more lessons for us all still in the reno process? :P

Cheers!

Oh yes, you bet.

The Mattress Story

The big brands of three 'S's would surface when you mentioned about mattresses;

Simmon, Sealy and Serta, or at least I thought so.. all the good work of advertisements.

Having lingered and tired a few of each, i swear to you that Sealy has one of the most comfortable mattress that one could offered. I love the plushness that Sealy has to offer. Associated with some renown hotels, surely they must be of certain standards as well.

So that day forward, i went all over silly hunting for Sealy mattress; Robinsons to Havey norman, Sealy Sleep boutique to Sealy distributor, and even the parallel importers; Mattress Giant, Ezpzx (they offer the high-range products, ie Simmon Black Label for <$4k, but i eventually passed cos I find them rather doggy)

So in a nutshell, i'm prepared to pay for a gd sum of money ($3k on the mattress) which I'm gonna spend one third of my life lying on.. ;)

One day, I came across a gd read by Seth Stevenson which left me thinking;

thought i might share with the guys here-

Going to the Mattresses

How to cut through the marketing gimmicks of Sealy, Serta, and the rest.

Here's a fun game I play. First, I walk into a mattress store and ask what's on sale. Then, I throw my hands in the air and shout along with the salesman, "EVERYTHING'S ON SALE!!!!" Oh how we laugh, the salesman and I. And while he's still chuckling, I turn around and walk out, because I fricking hate mattress salesmen.

Is there a more maddening industry? They confuse us with silly product names (the Sealy Posturepedic Crown Jewel Fletcher Ultra Plush Pillowtop or the Sealy Posturepedic Crown Jewel Brookmere Plush?). They flummox us with bogus science ("pocketed coils"? "Microtek foundations"? "Fiberlux"?). And they weigh us down with useless features (silk damask ticking?). It's like buying a used car, and almost as expensive—I've seen mattresses going for $7,000. What's a consumer to do?

The secret to mattress shopping is that the product is basically a commodity. The mattress biz is 99-percent marketing. So just buy the cheapest thing you can stand and be done with it, because they're pretty much all the same. And that's all you need to know. But do read on—the world of sleep products is quite fascinating, and I'd like to share it with you.

What's the Best Brand?

Innerspring mattresses, particularly the Big S's (Simmons, Serta, Sealy), dominate the market. But how to choose among Serta and Sealy, Stearns and Foster, and King Koil? Or for that matter, between the Simmons Beautyrest Exceptionale Lenore and the Simmons Beautyrest Do-Not-Disturb Royalty Ultra?

Here's the lowdown: Mattress makers rename identical products for each different retail store. Different labels, exact same guts. Why? Obfuscation. It's hard to shop for the lowest price when you can't compare apples to apples. Lucky for you, they're all subtle variations on the same apple—not only within each brand, but even among different brands.

The heart of an innerspring mattress is the coils. Otherwise it's just foam, cotton, quilting, and stitches. But the big-name mattress makers (with some exceptions) all get their coils from a single company, Leggett and Platt, for their highest-end mattresses down to their lowest. This is akin to every single car on the market, Lamborghinis to Kias, using an engine made by Ford. Except that mattresses are far less complicated than cars. In fact, they're so simple that there's no real difference among them at all.

Upshot: Ignore brand names. They're meaningless. Just pay attention to comfort. Which leads us to our next question:

How Firm Should My Mattress Be?

Herein lies the central mattress paradox. You sleep on coils because they're softer than the floor, but you still want good, firm coils, but then you put foam padding on top to soften the coils, but you still want the foam to be dense, and then finally you put a strong box spring underneath for just a tiny bit of give. All this shuttling back and forth on the scale of firmness—why not just start with the firmness you like, and then stop? My favorite mattress name encapsulates the paradox: Simmons Beautyrest World Class Granite Plush. Granite Plush???

Let's break down each mattress feature that creates firmness, or softness, or both.

Coil Counts and Wire Gauges: When I began, coil counts and wire gauges seemed the key to everything. I talked to several bedding journalists who had desperately sought these numbers from the mattress makers, but had long failed to penetrate the shroud of secrecy. I figured these stats were the empirical measure: More and thicker coils mean fuller and better support. But I soon found it's not that simple. Some mattresses use more coils but thinner-gauge wire. Some use thicker wire but fewer coils. And everyone uses radically different configurations that make comparisons meaningless.

Larry Thomas of Furniture Today—a man described to me as "the guru of the bedding industry"—told me coil counts are "overrated" and "not a good indicator." Yes, if you pay more, you'll get a theoretically better coil design, but better enough to feel a difference? I sure couldn't. Not even between two mattresses thousands of dollars apart in price. So don't worry about the stats—worry about the comfort.

Pillowtops: Pillowtops are soft layers of foam (or cotton, or wool) sewn to the top of the mattress. They're hugely popular. They add hundreds of dollars to your purchase. They are, in my opinion, a massive rip-off. You can re-create their effect with a few cheap egg-crate foam pads. And why spend all that money on springs just to dampen their affect with a giant pillow? If you really want to sleep on foam or cotton, buy a foam or cotton mattress.

Thickness: A recent fad. Some Stearns and Foster (a brand owned by Sealy) mattresses I saw measured about 2 feet thick (and cost $5,000). It looked like they sewed a futon on top of an innerspring. Experts I talked to say thickness is just a ploy: It makes beds look comfy in the showroom. If you notice a difference, mazel tov, but thickness isn't vital to a good bed. You can achieve the same feel with less height (and weight—some mattresses weigh more than 200 pounds and are tough to carry up the stairs).

Mattresses have gotten so thick recently that people are complaining they can't see their headboards. Actual industry response: They made the box-springs thinner. Which of course leads us to ...

Box Springs: I find them wholly unnecessary. Think about it: Presumably, you could put a box spring under your box spring for even more "give" and "support." Another box spring under those two. Where do you draw the line? Also, remember that box springs add significantly to your cost. One reasonable argument I heard for them is that they save wear on your mattress, but I had no way to prove or disprove this.

Many Europeans use platform beds without box springs. Do you hear them complaining? I don't use a box spring, and I don't miss it. It's a princess/pea thing. If you need 17 layers, OK. If you only need one, don't buy a box spring, unless you don't like platforms and can't think of anything better to put your mattress on. My recommendation: Put your mattress on the floor—it saves money on nightstands. Give in to gravity!

Is a Firm Mattress Best for My Back?

I asked an orthopedic surgeon at something called the National Foundation for Spinal Health. He said a mattress should support you in the "position of function"—the normal curve of your spine when you're standing up. When a mattress flattens the curve (too firm), or exaggerates it (too soft), bingo: back pain. According to him, a supportive innerspring works better than foam, air, or water. The NFSH recommends: the Simmons Back Care mattress. Problem solved, let's go home, yes? No! I soon discovered the NFSH takes money from companies, including, especially, Simmons! Sketchy! Next orthopedic surgeon, please.

This second guy was independent and no longer practicing. He debunked the myth that firm mattresses are best. They are if you get acute back spasms, but for regular back pain your mattress doesn't make much difference. "The back is a complicated structure," he said. "Back pain has a lot to do with how you're built, but not a lot to do with your mattress." So you don't have to feel guilty about buying a soft, cushy mattress. It doesn't make a difference. (Regional trivia: Firm mattresses sell more in the Northeast [you penitent yankees, you!], while soft wins out in the South.)

Do I Need All Those Extra Features?

No. Screw 'em. For instance ...

Ticking and Quilting: People often buy based on how a mattress looks in the store. This is moronic. You're going to spread a sheet over it the second you get home. Belgian damask? Really, now.

No-Flip Designs: Manufacturers say to flip your mattress every three months. It's even in some warranties. Yet this year's Simmons Beautyrest 2000 boasts a "no flip" design. And it's selling like hotcakes (for which flipping, incidentally, remains compulsory). Why? People love work-saving innovations—we're too lazy to flip. But what does it really mean? It means there's block foam on one side instead of something you could sleep on. And it means if there's a stain or a rip on the sleeping side, you're SOL. They should have called it the "can't flip" design. It's like a "No Oil Change" car that's simply had the dipstick and cap soldered in place.

Warranties: Almost any problem from normal use (which is all the warranties cover) will happen in the first month or so. Ignore the 10- and 20-year coverage. Just make sure there's a solid, 30- or 60-day return policy. That's important not only if the mattress is defective, but if you plain don't like it upon further review.

What About Foam, Air, Water, and Latex?

These legendary "four elements" of classical mythology can also be mattresses. Viscoelastic "memory" foam is popular now. I tried the Tempurpedic brand and loved it—it melts to fit your form. But I wouldn't spend $1,500 for a mattress, no matter how Swedish it is.

Select Comfort air mattresses have sold big lately (though innerspring sales still dwarf everything else, owning more than 80 percent of the market). I didn't like the feeling of air, even though I could adjust the firmness with a remote-controlled pump. When you compress it with your weight, air doesn't seem to have as much give as foam. And it felt like I was camping. These start at $550 for a queen-size.

Waterbeds have hung around (still half of all specialty mattress sales), but I couldn't find one out on display to test. And they give me the yips a little.

Finally, an independent mattress manufacturer I talked to swore that latex makes the best mattresses. (Coincidentally, he makes latex mattresses.) I tried a latex bed, and it didn't feel very different from a firm innerspring, but that's me.

Futons?

Sure, why not? They're cheaper, partly because there's no box spring. But what is a futon these days, anyway? The definition has essentially devolved into "it bends." They even make innerspring futons, now. At the same time, real innerspring beds keep stacking on the foam and cotton, emulating futons of yore.

Conclusion

If you can't tell the difference between a $200 and a $900 mattress (I couldn't, but maybe you can), get the cheaper one. They're nearly the same, anyway. Anything over $1,500 and you're just paying for prestige, says Larry Thomas. There are tons of great mattress sets for low prices. Yes, to an extent, you get what you pay for (better coil design, denser foam, ritzier ticking), but don't go crazy over this stuff. Lie down on mattesses in the store and trust your own judgment. Remember: Once you're asleep, every mattress feels the same.

So, eventually i didn't get a Sealy.

 

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I've gotten a Queen-sized KingKoil Rosedale Rosedale with 1.5" latex topper with Storage divan+ leather headrest for $2050 during the Kingkoil sale at Matu****a.

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Mattress shopping can be quite tricky, Robinsons, mattress company would normally flood the newspaper with sales advertisement over the weekend, and tell you that this promo is vaild on till this Sunday.

Don't buy their crap, walk away if they try to hard-sell.

Ask for free pillows/ bolsters/ mattress-protector. The sales man can usually give to you free.

Do remember to bring along your partner for the mattress shopping; lie on the bed, toss around for 5-10mins.

Was told by one of the sales person Side-sleepers should go for a softer bed, i.e with better comfort-layers.

(note especially if you are buying odd-size beds/ mattress; ie european size/ US size, as the regular bedsheet/ mattress protector/ bed frames may not fit)

Sleeppost and ibeds are nice website to start with.

hope this helps. :rolleyes:

Last but not least, we have decided something to remnd ourselves before the bed;

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