krisietong 0 Report post Posted May 5, 2007 haha. it's the opposite way for us. i'm the one who keep nagging at hubby. he can't stand my nagging. my hubby will nag about all the things that i've done wrong or the incidents that he was not happy with.. nag and nag... really cannot take it..i cannot nag at him.. cos i really cannot recall the past i am a happily 'demented' wife.. keke Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LinDa 0 Report post Posted May 5, 2007 (edited) HSH21 doesn't have avatar leh. wa, u reply very fast tat day lor.. i edited my reply lei!! hehe.. Edited May 5, 2007 by LinDa Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
korea 0 Report post Posted May 5, 2007 my hubby will nag about all the things that i've done wrong or the incidents that he was not happy with.. nag and nag... really cannot take it..i cannot nag at him.. cos i really cannot recall the past i am a happily 'demented' wife.. kekebascially, we always nag at each other. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LinDa 0 Report post Posted May 5, 2007 haha. it's the opposite way for us. i'm the one who keep nagging at hubby. he can't stand my nagging. same, when i tell my hubby he changed last time he was nicer to me etc etc, then he say i oso change, if i dun nag so much, he wouldn't have change..but our nagging is like concern which is good ma, their change is for the worse like not so loving..wa lau, wait till one day i decide not to show him any more CONCERN and stop nagging lor..then maybe he will worry but by then too late le!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
korea 0 Report post Posted May 5, 2007 wa, u reply very fast tat day lor.. i edited my reply lei!! hehe.. same, when i tell my hubby he changed last time he was nicer to me etc etc, then he say i oso change, if i dun nag so much, he wouldn't have change..but our nagging is like concern which is good ma, their change is for the worse like not so loving..wa lau, wait till one day i decide not to show him any more CONCERN and stop nagging lor..then maybe he will worry but by then too late le!! what's "loving" meant to you gals? in what ways? if my hubby often buy me meals when he knows i haven't eaten yet. whenever i want something and he'll try his best to buy for me, most of the time i'll get the things i want. usually, he'll bring me to see doctor when i'm sick. he'll order and carry the food for me when we eat together at foodcourt. he'll always buy me presents on my birthday. are these above meant "loving"? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LinDa 0 Report post Posted May 5, 2007 (edited) what's "loving" meant to you gals? in what ways? if my hubby often buy me meals when he knows i haven't eaten yet. whenever i want something and he'll try his best to buy for me, most of the time i'll get the things i want. usually, he'll bring me to see doctor when i'm sick. he'll order and carry the food for me when we eat together at foodcourt. he'll always buy me presents on my birthday. are these above meant "loving"? yup, all you mentioned to me is loving..but my requirements i feel are even more simple..as long as when we go out he holds my hand, as long as every morning he gives me a morning kiss before he leaves for work, as long as every night before he sleep he give me a good night kiss, i happy le..but i tell him many times before le, he still don't do it..long long time ago, think he did all of that for like 2 yrs before it all stopped.. sighs, mine is a bit sad case one la, he's those more practical type lor.. not romantic one.. so lor.. Edited May 5, 2007 by LinDa Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
HSH21 1 Report post Posted May 6, 2007 (edited) but i tell him many times before le, he still don't do it..long long time ago, think he did all of that for like 2 yrs before it all stopped.. sighs, mine is a bit sad case one la, he's those more practical type lor.. not romantic one.. so lor..He doesn't do... U do lor... sometime it is just a matter of showing love... who do also can right ??May be U should recall why he stop all these... and find a way to let he starts again ?? Edited May 6, 2007 by HSH21 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
korea 0 Report post Posted May 6, 2007 yup, all you mentioned to me is loving..but my requirements i feel are even more simple..as long as when we go out he holds my hand, as long as every morning he gives me a morning kiss before he leaves for work, as long as every night before he sleep he give me a good night kiss, i happy le..but i tell him many times before le, he still don't do it..long long time ago, think he did all of that for like 2 yrs before it all stopped.. sighs, mine is a bit sad case one la, he's those more practical type lor.. not romantic one.. so lor.. you're a woman who like to be kissed. hehe. even your avatar has a sexy lip. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
xinyi_reiko 0 Report post Posted May 6, 2007 Sounds scary leh. We haven start staying together. Will be doing it soon, i guess staying together will have more gun powder. =/My case also everything planned by me. But good thing is no complaints to me and follow me everywhere to to do things like furniture hunting. If not sure Sometimes, I also very stress and tried, feel like screaming at him. We ROMed for less than 3 mths, so still too early to say anything. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
krisietong 0 Report post Posted May 6, 2007 what's "loving" meant to you gals? in what ways? if my hubby often buy me meals when he knows i haven't eaten yet. whenever i want something and he'll try his best to buy for me, most of the time i'll get the things i want. usually, he'll bring me to see doctor when i'm sick. he'll order and carry the food for me when we eat together at foodcourt. he'll always buy me presents on my birthday. are these above meant "loving"? i think in spore.. most guys are loving in practical ways loh..for my hubby, he places me at top priority.. he always try his best to provide for my needs.. now, he is doing his best to earn more dough for me to do degree course Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
korea 0 Report post Posted May 6, 2007 Sounds scary leh. We haven start staying together. Will be doing it soon, i guess staying together will have more gun powder. =/My case also everything planned by me. But good thing is no complaints to me and follow me everywhere to to do things like furniture hunting. If not sure Sometimes, I also very stress and tried, feel like screaming at him. We ROMed for less than 3 mths, so still too early to say anything. your ROM period is still "green" (less than 3 mths). hubby and i have ROM for about 3 years liao and now we still quarrel at times. i think in spore.. most guys are loving in practical ways loh..for my hubby, he places me at top priority.. he always try his best to provide for my needs.. now, he is doing his best to earn more dough for me to do degree course ya, agree. sporean men are loving in practical ways. they think that romantic cannot fill up the stomach and earning more $$$ for the wives is a more practical way. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LinDa 0 Report post Posted May 6, 2007 He doesn't do... U do lor... sometime it is just a matter of showing love... who do also can right ??May be U should recall why he stop all these... and find a way to let he starts again ??i got do but after a while all give and no take is..i dun noe..sad??i oso don't know..did try hard to recall but cant remember.. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
HSH21 1 Report post Posted May 6, 2007 i got do but after a while all give and no take is..i dun noe..sad??i oso don't know..did try hard to recall but cant remember.. Cannot like that.... he doesn't show he loves U... but if U still love him... U can show lor....Sometime men just show love in other ways... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
korea 0 Report post Posted May 6, 2007 Cannot like that.... he doesn't show he loves U... but if U still love him... U can show lor....Sometime men just show love in other ways...in what ways how they show? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
krisietong 0 Report post Posted May 6, 2007 in what ways how they show? like ensuring that we have enff to eat?? enff $$ to get our clothes, bags, shoes, make-ups Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
